23/05/2026
BEN’S REFLECTION: THE HEART OF PRAYER
What is the heart of prayer? Is it treating God as our ATM? We perform a special ritual, make our request and then demand the request to be delivered. God’s job is to deliver my needs and wants, right? We often place ourselves at the centre of prayer.
However, Jesus showed us a different way in Matthew 6:9-15.
- God-focussed: “Our heavenly Father…”
- God-focussed: “Hallowed be your name…”
- God-focussed: “your kingdom come, YOUR WILL BE DONE…”
- God-focussed: “…on earth as it is in heaven…”
- Others including self (physical): “Give US this day our daily bread…”
- Others including self (spiritual): “Forgive US our debts…”
- Others including self (spiritual): “deliver US from evil.”
Our SELF is minimised in this prayer. When we pray, do we focus on what God wants or what we want?” If we focus on God’s desires, how does the language of our prayer change? what does it sound like?
We often treat prayer as spiritual warfare against God himself. Us fighting with him to get the “YES” to our prayer. Yet Jesus himself received the answer, “NO” when he prayed “take this cup away from me.” Are we better than our master at getting a “YES”? Prayer is not spiritual warfare against God. Prayer is spiritual warfare against ourselves. Jesus prayed “yet not my will but yours…”
Most humans hate change. We fight for comfortable consistency. There is one thing thing about this life that does not change, and that is that everything changes! Changes occur around us all the time. You would think that humans would be better at change, but we are not! Therefore, changing ourselves to align with God’s will is often a big spiritual battle. Bigger than most!
When we have the perspective that prayer is about our own selfish needs, our prayer life is only active when things are going wrong. Prayer generally ceases when things are going right. When we place the perspective ONTO God and others, our prayer life comes to life. We see need everywhere… and prayers become less individualistic and become more collective:
- Spiritual revivals
- Awakened understanding
- Confessing national sins when the nation is unrepentant (Read Daniel 9:3-6)
- End to wars
- End to starvation
Our prayer becomes more consistent because we see other people’s need to come to God and seek His will… 🙏
“Pray without ceasing” 1 Thessalonians 5:17