04/09/2026
What thoughts come to your mind when you think of your father? Once upon a time people used to think of the head of the house, the breadwinner, the disciplinarian, the one who stood for justice. When I think of my father I am reminded of the sacrifices that he made for his family, in his desire that we might have a better life than him. Indeed because he had a single mother he made every effort he could to provide for his children the type of family life he never had.
It seems as if the view of fathers and indeed the role of males in our society is changing in response to misbehaviour by some bad fathers and increased emphasis on individual rights. What is the role model people are looking towards today? Romans 13: 8-14 tells how we can live lovingly with one another, as God’s family. This love is not the sort that means anything goes as long as you feel good about it. Rather it is as NT Wright suggests “the love that wells up from within the Spirit-filled heart is known precisely by its joyful obedience to the commandments which protect us from wronging and being wronged by one another. “
God, the heavenly father, wants us to be members of his family, facilitated by the actions of his son for us. In doing this he wants us to be full members of his family, his community. This means that we never give up on the relationships with members of his family in the same way that through forgiveness and reconciliation we aim to never give up on relationships in our own families. Read Matthew 18: 15-20. This reminds us how we need to hold ourselves accountable for our relationships in the Christian community, just as we do in our families. This is not easy but if we hold ourselves accountable, if we practise mutual love, it helps the world see who our heavenly father really is. So we must never give up on each other, as our fathers tried not to give up on us. Like our fathers we must pursue each other in love. That is how his kingdom can be done on earth as in heaven.
Paul addresses these issues in Romans 13: 8-14. He outlines that love is the law of God. He quotes from the 10 commandments showing how they are about loving others: do not commit adultery, do not murder, do not covert, do not steal. Today the emphasis seems to be on doing good for me rather than being mindful of others. How do we achieve this? By putting on the armour of light. Are you the sort of person who brings light to social company because of how you treat other people? Light is also a powerful image because that is how we see and understand the new world introduced by the Messiah. It is here so we need to live by its standards.
How do we improve our sight? Some people pray each day to be clothed with the character of Jesus. Others read a story slowly from the gospels, praying that the character of the Jesus they meet there will surround them, will protect them and be the thing others see in them.
Paul suggests we should clothe ourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ. In knowing us do people meet Jesus Christ because we are clothed with him. We have been transformed into new people. Not just people raised by their family but people raised to live in a new family - the Kingdom of God.