05/09/2026
The custom of eating certain foods on the night of Rosh haShana is just that: a custom. It is by no means obligatory, so don't drive yourself mad trying to locate hard-to-find items or forcing yourself to eat anything you don't like. Certainly don't force yourself to go broke paying exorbitant prices for exotic or unusual items.
Also, and far more important: these foods are SYMBOLIC. Don't for a second think that eating apples in sugar or honey will cause you to have a good and sweet year; it just doesn't work that way. It is up to you to make the best of your year, and to ask the One who can give you a good year to do so. The apple is there to help you remember that, nothing more--as are all the other traditional foods.