27/11/2024
Day 3 Devotional for the 16 days of activism against gender based violence.
Above all else, guard your heart,
for everything you do flows from it. (Proverbs4:23, NIV)
Continuing on from yesterday, we’re examining the relationship between what we do and what we think and feel (our inner selves, or our ‘heart’ as the Bible expresses it) especially as these relate to gender-based violence.
The Bible verse above is saying we need to protect and care for our thoughts and feelings, for they lead to all our actions and ways of responding to the world around us. There is a clear relationship between how we think, and how we feel, and how we act.
The National Community Attitudes Towards Violence against Women Survey (NCAS) is the world's longest-running population-level survey of community attitudes and it shows us some of the specific ideas we have about women and men that lead to unhealthy thoughts and ultimately support gender-based violence. Because we may not always be consciously aware of our thoughts and attitudes, the NCAS presents a series of scenarios and asks respondents to respond to them.
The results show that a sizeable minority of Australians have enduringly unhelpful attitudes about women and men that contribute to the social problem of gender-based violence.
For our own good, and for the good of others, the Bible often references the need for people to examine their thoughts. Jesus knew that our thoughts can become distorted and we can avert our own poor behaviour by addressing those distortions. Our thinking is influenced for better or for worse by all sorts of things: the information we have, who we look up to, our experiences (including childhood and adult trauma), our circumstances, our health and wellbeing, our friends.
Be made new in the attitude of your minds. (Ephesians 4:23)
In the following days, each of our posts and devotions will address, one by one, some of the unhealthy thoughts and attitudes that can lead to domestic violence and will suggest alternative, healthier thoughts and attitudes.
Our prayer today is drawn from Psalm 139:
Examine me, God! Look at my heart!
Put me to the test! Know my anxious thoughts!
Look to see if there is any hurtful way in me,
then lead me on the eternal path! Amen