29/05/2026
“I have a problem with forgiveness,
and the problem with forgiveness is this:
If I have to forgive you,
I’ve made myself into a victim of you somewhere.
I’m blaming you for something.
I’m blaming you for how I feel inside myself.
To me, that is simply childishness.
I’m responsible for how I feel, not you.
You can’t make me feel - only I can make me feel
so I don’t forgive people,
I just forget,
I just let it go.
I always thought forgiveness was a load of bu****it,
because to forgive someone
I have to volunteer to be a victim
—
If you’re not in acceptance of what is,
And if you’re in resistance to anything whatsoever,
you are creating suffering for yourself
while probably blaming someone else or something else for it.
Which once again comes back to maturity.
It’s immature to not take full responsibility for yourself
that you make yourself feel.
It’s childishness.
—
We live in a victim-orientated society
that supports victim orientation.
We blame other people and situations
for how we feel,
which is immaturity.
Only you can make you feel.
Nobody else can make you feel.
People can do things that you don’t agree with,
that you don’t like,
but only you can make you feel.
Nobody else can make you feel but you.
—
Jesus’s teachings of forgiveness were for the immature,
because if we have to forgive,
we are supporting victim-orientated thinking,
which is childish.
Maturity is you taking full responsibility for yourself
not blaming someone else or something else
for how you feel
People who are mature have a chance of enlightenment;
people who are immature do not,
because they keep getting caught in their immaturity
and going into resistance to what is.
This takes them back into lower consciousness.
We’ve got to stop being a victim of life,
got to stop being a victim of others,
and grow up.”
Vishrant