22/10/2026
TODAY’S REFLECTION
October 22, 2026, Thursday
OBEDIENCE OR PREFERENCE
Rev. B**g De Castro, OSL
Read Matthew 26:36-42 , NIV
‘“Going a little farther, he fell with his face to the ground and prayed, ‘My Father, if it is possible, may this cup be taken from me. Yet not as I will, but as you will.”’ – Matthew 26:39
Every believer must choose whether he will live by the principle of obedience or follow his preferences. When a person commits to doing the Lord’s will, then every situation and decision is sifted through the standard of “God said it, so I’m going to do it—and that’s the end of it.” He may complain, weep, or try to argue. But in the end he will be obedient, no matter what.
I recall an overseas call years ago about a possible job opportunity in Africa. Throughout the conversation, within me, I poured my heart out to the Lord, telling Him I had no desire to move there. I grumbled, resisted, and struggled with what seemed to be unfolding before me. Even so, beneath my objections grew a conviction that Africa would be my next chapter. It was not my preference, but I had learned that resisting God's leading often brings a heavier burden than following it. Few anxieties compare to the feeling that you may have missed a door God Himself opened.
The Lord certainly understands our need to question, cry out, and petition Him for the strength to do what He asks. Hebrews 4:15 tells us that we have a high priest who can sympathize with us. Jesus wasn’t excited or happy about the cross. He grieved over the coming separation from His Father. Nevertheless, He was committed to following God’s will (Matt. 26:39). No one took Christ’s life from Him; He laid it down (John 10:18).
Our lives are about fulfilling God’s purpose. Many people miss His awesome plan for them because they choose to follow their preferences. Obedience is sometimes hard, but the struggle and sacrifice are worth it. There is joy and peace for the believer who pleases the Lord and lives by His principles.
PRAYER
Gracious Father, like Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane, we often come before You carrying our own desires, plans, and preferences. We confess that there are times when we choose what is comfortable instead of what is right, and what pleases us instead of what honors You.
Teach us to pray with the same humble surrender as Christ: “Yet not as I will, but as You will.” When Your will is difficult, give us courage to obey. When our preferences conflict with Your purpose, give us hearts that trust You completely. Help us remember that true peace is found not in having our own way, but in faithfully walking in Yours. May our lives reflect a spirit of obedience that places Your will above our personal desires, so that You may be glorified in all we do.
In the name of Jesus, who perfectly obeyed the Father. Amen. 🙏🙏🙏