14/03/2013
All praise due to Allah subhanau wataala, blessings and peace we pray to our Nabi the holy prophet muhamad Rasullullah salla llahu aleih wasllama( peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and to his companions and all believers.
this friday khutba for the married Muslims a must read.
every day is a wedding day for married people,a husband has got look into the eyes of , his wife as like the first day he proposed to Marry her, or the day he met her he was afraid she will refuse him, and she accepted he was happy, don't forget that it was a grace of Allah to make her heart accept you not because you have got money, they are those with money more than you she met and rejected, her heart loved you and expected love, care, tenderness, and protection, so look at her and realize how beautiful she is , there are out there praying to Allah to give a woman like yours and your very busy not appreciating having her, the day she will turn her heart away from yu and ask Allah for another husband and she leaves , you will never get some like her for you but it will take you some to realize it after trying new women and thing becomes hard for you. so if you have a woman, every day is a wedding day for both of you, use your imagination and see her in a wedding gown, she was young and beautiful when you met her, now after some time you think she is not beautiful enough for you, no she is always beautiful and she will always be beautiful to your eyes, observe her beauty , look at her legs, hands, the face, the way she walks, her voice when she talks, her hair, her skin, her body, her smile, you will always see beauty in any of those. and always pray to Allah for guidance and protection from devil that always wants to come between two married people to separate them. marriage is divine contract witnessed by Allah and his angels and the children born are blessed . if you read the holy Quran Allah subhanahu wataala was addressing us men to tell our wives to do so and so, he didn't address women directly because if the husband is good, the wife will also be good, that is why i only focus on the goodness of a husbands. please be good to your wife at all coast and be patirnt with her for anything seems not right to you, and speak to her with love and feelings, she will ba as good as you wish, give her time to learn your ways and how to please you, she needs that time, spend on her than you spend on cars and furniture in the house, remember she is going to enter the aljanat with you on the of Qiyama but the cars and houses will remain here on earth, remember she is a witness to you,if you don't treat her well or tell her to make salat, she will be a reason for you not to enter the paradise.
as for women only one word i have for you, try as much as you can always to look beautiful , never ever allow your husband to look at you when your dirty , please take care of the hair, they change your face to look more beautiful, so take good care of them, it make his heart thinks your not beautiful enough, dont wait for a wedding day to make your self beautiful especially now days, women out side your home where the husband go for work looks very beautiful, try to be clean, take shower five times a day, get good perfumes and have a good smell for him, dont shout back at him when he is talking to you, just listen to him until he finish and if possible dont even reply because the more you reply the more he will get angry , wait when he is ok, then tell him what you want to tell him. your beautiful it doesn't matter how old your. always pray to Allah for your self for the blessings and for your husband and your family every day. may Allah bless muslim women to look more beautiful in the eyes of their husbands because their beauty is the key to their success for a happy life they deserve, and grant them faith and islam and make them obedient to their husbands and protect all of us and our families from satan the cursed.
all praises due to Allah , peace and blessings we convey upon our beloved the holy prophet Muhammad sallah llahu aleih wasallama ( peace be upon him) ,may Allah bless his entire ummah of Islam with better life and grant us al- janat amen.