04/01/2021
99% of women, ladies or girls who don't listen to their intuition or don't follow it, don't trust themselves. And honey if you don't trust yourself how do you expect to trust someone else? Same applies to love, if you don't love yourself, how do you expect to love someone else? Everything begins with you. Listen to your spirit, listen to your soul, listen to your mind, listen to your heart. We are rarely caught off guard when facing disappointment or betrayal, you can bare witness with me that most of the time we had a gut feeling before it happened. We are all searching for happiness and love, security and some validation. And that's okay, for EVE too had gone against what she always knew, she must have been in the place we are too. And in the end we end up settling for anything that we think can provide us with what we are in search for. And when it doesn't work out our whole world comes crumbling down. Because someone else called you beautiful, worthy, important, precious, valuable, for some queen/king. When they leave we think we are no longer any of that, we feel ugly, like trash, unwanted, because we were relying on the outside acceptance. Now enough about what different voices in our lives tell us, what do you believe yourself? You see the transformation has to begin from your inside and spring out to the outside. What the world feeds or showers us, lasts only for a while, and soon fades away, its like the bubbles we would blow with the bubble bath, they pop and reality hits. Don't wait for anyone to tell you everything beautiful and amazing, you start doing that yourself, you start doing so, so that the next time anyone tells you otherwise or walks out on you, you'll not feel like a nobody because you've always known that you are amazing and deserve everything beautiful, and probably that thing or person that left didn't have your name on it, and that's okay. When you get into a relationship or if at all you are already in one, don't wait on your partner to validate you, you do it yourself, work on you.
It's high time we don't only pray for God to show us how he sees us but he should also make it sink into our souls and it shouldn't depart from us.
