27/08/2023
FAMILY MATTERS 💕
If this is a person you are dating or married to help them to change before marriage if its possible.
1. GETS CREDITS AND DOES NOT PAY BACK OR KEEPS GIVING PEOPLE FAKE EXCUSES.
I have said it before and I will say it here some people's monies are not clean money some have blood money and some work very hard sweating for what they earn and from no where you go and fake them with your stories get their mony in the name of credit they change their program just because they want to help you but when that time of paying back come you stop picking their calls and leave them crying and complaining 🙄, cursing and worrying this has the power of bouncing back to you by hindering some of your progress in life due to their complaints and bitter words on you. Careful.
If you are dating someone who likes credits, loans etc I may not be too quick to say leave them but I would like you to know that such a person is a danger in your life and if you will decide to marry such a person make sure you have seen change in it's fullness but if that person has been talked to, you have complained about that problem time without number, you have actually even gone as far as engaging some people to talk to your partner but there is no change I would now tell you to think twice before taking a step of marrying such a person.
Imagine people knocking at your door past 20hrs following your partner for money which you don't even know?
You have a choice to make ✍️
2. PROUD MA*******OR ADDICT.
Its possible for a husband to rush to the bathroom to ma******te while leaving the wife on bed in her 'wedding suit' but still run to ma******te but how would you feel as a lady discovering this is the life your husband is going through 🙄 apart from that we all have heard and read ma********on is evil and demonic so if your girlfriend or boyfriend is an addict help them change before it's too late. Careful
3. PHYSICAL FIGHTING IS A SOLUTION.
Some people believe when things go out of hand it's better to fight with hands but this is a very bad way of handling situations one thing you should understand is that no matter what reasons you may give or have for beating you wife or girl it doesn't change the fact that it's evil and should be stopped. So my sister of your partner beats you pray to God he helps you to change your partner otherwise such partners can act like a lion 🦁 sometimes they are able to kick you, anywhere as long as they kick. Careful.
4. S*X ADDICT.
Imagine here is a person who hasn't yet married you but is addict to s*x how? From where? Why? You may think you are doing him a favor by giving him your body for s*x every time he coughs but listen my sister you are spoiling him, yourself and reducing chances of him marrying you also destroying his mindset wherever he goes he wants do do the same because he is addicted and at the end when he dumps you for another girl from Kalulushi you complain that after all I have done for him stop it and fear God. When you stop it he will actually even begin to think properly and start making plans of bringing you home. Careful.
5. HAS NO RESPECT FOR ELDERLY PEOPLE AND HIS PARENTS.
Dating a person who does not respect his parents will never respect your parents also imagine someone who can insult his own mother what more your mother? So make sure your help your partner develop a good relationship with his parents and elderly people where he comes from because thoes are people that bless us now if wherever he goes people keep complaining and speaking bad things about him how will your house be blessed? Careful
6. A DIRTY PERSON.
We all want to date or marry a clean, smart, fresh looking person being clean and smart doesn't mean you should have a lot of money just bath wash your clothes iron them nicely if you can, brush your teeth and get some gum. Please if you have observed some level of uncleanliness in your partner help them to change because next time you be embarrassed to people or relatives. As you wish to help them in this area min your approach and the words you use be soft and do it in love don't do it to embarrass your partner and don't do it in public correct them as you would wish to be corrected, everyone has room for change don't give up. Careful.
7. LOVES OUTINGS AND PARTIES WITH FRIENDS.
You may not want to accept this but men always want to run away from a lady who loves ma sleep overs, outings and panties everyone has their own reasons why they would rather run away from such a person but what I have heard so far is that such a too weak to temptations that come in thoes areas they go such as drinking or other things that may happen there so in case your partner is too much into such find a way of helping them come out otherwise one day that can break the two of you. Careful
8. DRUNKARD.
Am not here to judge or condemn anyone but I have seen homes break, divorce signed all because of bear drinking. When a person is drunk they can do anything with anyone and at anytime listen a drunkard guy can raise a fight with a wife beat a wife and still refuse having beaten her. I have had a privilege many times going to settle Marital conflicts where bear drinking is the source and I pray in case you are dating a person who drinks may God help you change that person. Careful.
9. NOT ROMANTIC 🧐
Marriage and relationships can sometimes be dry and very boring and frustrating such that at some point you would just wish you can quit and just be alone this can also be caused when you are dating or married to someone who is not romantic worse if you date one who thinks it's a sin to be romantic eish 😖😌 please dating a partner who is not romantic is so pathetic and boring, don't worry you can teach your friend how to be romantic just d it and let them observe it can work out. Off you are the one who is not romantic please have mercy to your partner she is not your sister speak sweet words to her, call her sweet names, take her out for a walk, hold hands and tell her you really love her and make sure you do it both in words and actions. Careful
10. DOES NOT GO TO CHURCH.
Dating a person who doesn't go to church has chances of you two having children who also won't be going to church and in that house no matter what you will have challenges in terms of praying together any spiritual battle or attack that comes he will always stay behind and let you fight it alone, it is God who unites two people together now imagine you are dating someone who doesn't go to church he won't understand this fact and he won't support you in anything relating to church programs but will try to discourage you in all ways. A person who doesn't go to church will discourage you badly and weaken your spirituality if you are not careful even you it's possible to stop church so help your partner in this area. Careful.
Grace even in Lodebar
