30/07/2026
7 Ways to Relate with Your Pastor
1. Pray for him
Throughout Paul's epistles, about five times he kept saying, "Pray for us." In 1 Thessalonians 5:25, he explicitly writes: "Brethren, pray for us." Never underestimate the power of praying for your spiritual leader.
2. Honor him
Acts 28:10 shows us the principle of honor. You cannot receive where you do not respect, and spiritual honor opens doors for spiritual blessing.
3. Give to him
Support your pastor with your time, your money, your resources, and your understanding. Galatians 6:6 reminds us: "Let him who is taught the word share in all good things with him who teaches."
4. Lighten the ministry burden
Every pastor is a burden bearer. In 2 Kings 4, the Shunammite woman stepped in to provide accommodation and practical support for Elisha—and she reaped a tremendous harvest for it. Find practical ways to ease the load.
5. Stand with him during difficult times
In Colossians 4, Paul listed Demas as a faithful companion. But by 2 Timothy 4, Demas had forsaken him during a hard season. Don't be a fair-weather supporter—stand firm with your pastor when times get tough.
6. Be part of the vision
Every church carries a vision, both short-term and long-term. Be an active participant and a willing hand in driving that vision forward.
7. Remember he is a "Man of God," not "God of Men"
As you relate with your pastor, remember there is always a deposit of humanity in every leader. Paul had his physical limitations, and Elisha had his own personality. Honor the grace on their life while extending grace to their humanity.