Pruvic Ministries

27/06/2024

The purpose of marriage is not your happiness.
The byproduct of marriage should be happiness
But many people think they can find happiness, joy in a relationship/marriage.
you can't be happy by yourself, how then do you expect someone to make you happy?
The purpose of marriage is to glorify God. when a man and woman comes together, they have an assignment to fulfill, a kingdom assignment
And that assignment is to reflect the image of God through that marriage
Now if you do that right, it should lead to happiness
But a lot of us go into relationships to find happiness, to find joy, to find meaning
You can only find that in a relationship with Jesus Christ
So if you’re not a happy single person, you not gonna be a happy married person

07/06/2024

MARRIAGE IS NOT A COMPETITION

1. Stop competing with your spouse who earns more and who contributes the most money. You two are one with an equal stake in the marriage. Both of you should give as you can. Belittling your spouse who earns less than you doesn't motivate him or her to love you and walk with you better

2. Stop wanting to win every argument with your spouse. Too many marriages suffer because the husband and wife want to prove who is more right. Sometimes you have to let arguments go and focus on what is most important: love. It doesn't matter who is right, what matters is that you both feel loved

3. Stop competing who is more educated than the other. Just because you have a Degree, Masters or PhD doesn't mean you look down on your spouse who hasn't gone to formal school to your level. Education is not just about going to University, appreciate your spouse's intellectual might regardless of how many certificates your spouse has. Intimacy doesn't require good grades and awards

4. Stop competing with your spouse who is more loved by the children between you two. Children love mom and dad just the same

5. Stop competing who has done fewer wrongs than the other. Love doesn't keep a record of wrongs. Love covers a multitude of sins

6. Stop competing who is more spiritual than the other. Grow together in prayer and fellowship, build each other up. Knowing God is not a race

7. Stop competing along gender lines, belittling your wife because she is a woman, wishing your husband ill and failure because he is a man just so that you show him what a man can do, a woman can do too. Complement each other, don't fight each other

8. Stop competing who does the most good in your marriage. Stop keeping scores of your good deeds against the good deeds of your spouse. You are not doing your spouse a favor by loving him/her

9. Stop competing who is more romantic or more s*xy between you two. You both have different ways of expressing your desires. Find a rhythm out of your unique expressions instead of forcing your spouse to be like you. Find your dance

30/11/2022

15/04/2021

All about a womanWhen she is quiet, millions of things are running in her mindWhen she is not arguing, she is thinking deeply.When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much inspite of being taken for granted.When she calls you everyday, she wants to know how you are doing.When she sms's you everyday, she wants you to reply at least once.When she says I love you, she means it.When she says I miss you, no one in this world can miss you more than her.When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a rock.Ladies are always special. She is said to be 8th wonder. She is always a priceless treasure. Never hurt her or take her wrong or for granted.

23/03/2021

Sometimes is needed to be at your strongest when you are feeling at your weakness. confuse your enemies

07/11/2020

"Sheep can fall in the mud, but only pigs can live in it."
Just because we fall into sin doesn’t mean we have to stay there. Remember your position as a child of God in the times that you may make a mistake. The thing about sheep is that they have a shepherd. That shepherd is there to protect the sheep and keep them out of harm’s way. Unlike pigs, we have a Good Shepherd that not only keeps us from danger en route to harm us, our Good Shepherd rescues us from any danger we bring upon ourselves. “Those who have been born into God's family do not make a practice of sinning, because God's life is in them. So they can't keep on sinning, because they are children of God” (1 John 3:9). Just like sheep don’t make it a practice to be in the mud, we must not make it a practice to live in sin. We are sheep.

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28/10/2020

DEAR LADIES : BITTER TRUTH YOU MUST SWALLOW :💯
1. S*x doesn't keep a man, if you like, turn 360% on bed, he will still dump you. Bleach until you become white, if he doesn't notice the qualities of a wife in you, he will leave you.
2. A man who win your love with cash may not stay forever. Real men don't settle down with fake women who love money.
3. The beauty of a woman can take her to a Palace but her character will determine how long she stays in the palace. Beauty attracts men but character keep them.
4. Material things definitely has its merits but it cannot alone provide the riches of a truly meaningful life.
5. Being s*xy without a character will not get you a husband, you will only get a boyfriend.
6. S*x can bring pleasure but it can never bring love, s*x is a product of love, love is not a product of s*x.
7. S*x can make a man stay with you overnight but love will make him stay for a lifetime.
8. There are some things that money just can't buy like manners, moral and integrity.
9. How you dress will definitely determine how men will address you.

24/10/2020

YOU DESERVE BETTER

No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it's time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her. You can't stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can't keep shedding tears over someone who doesn't deserve the love you gave. You can't keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more. You can't make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you.

You deserve better now. You deserve someone who appreciates all the good qualities that you offer. You deserve someone who won’t play with your delicate heart, you deserve someone who won’t be all about knowing your body, you deserve someone who will be serious with you and who will be with the fear of hurting you & losing you. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. Many people before you, who thought they couldn't make it, have survived and made it. Just like they made it, you will make it too.

Be strong and try to move on now. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.

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27/11/2019

Don’t turn your back on wisdom, for she will protect you. Love her, and she will guard you. Getting wisdom is the wisest thing you can do! And whatever else you do, develop good judgment. If you prize wisdom, she will make you great. Embrace her, and she will honor you. She will place a lovely wreath on your head; she will present you with a beautiful crown.”

Don’t turn your back on wisdom, for she will protect you. Love her, and she will guard you. Getting wisdom is the wisest thing you can do! And whatever else you do, develop good judgment. If you prize