Secrets of successful marriage with Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

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Dear child of God Beyond Kids and Bills—Build the Bond, Not Just the BudgetLet’s talk real today...✍🏽Many couples don’t ...
02/03/2026

Dear child of God

Beyond Kids and Bills—Build the Bond, Not Just the Budget

Let’s talk real today...✍🏽

Many couples don’t actually “know” each other anymore.

Their conversations revolve around:

“Did you pay the school fees?”

“What’s for dinner?”

“Pick the kids from practice.”

“We need to fix the plumbing.”

Sound familiar?
Children and responsibilities have filled the space, but emptied the connection.

Here’s the danger:
When the kids grow up and the house gets quieter, so does the marriage.
Two people who once dreamed together become roommates, not soulmates.
And the silence becomes louder than words.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.

What to do:

Date each other again: Not just dinner—real conversations. Ask, “What’s your dream now?” “What are you learning lately?”

Create moments, not just memories: Don’t wait for anniversaries to laugh, dance, or share secrets.

Invest in emotional intimacy: Talk about your fears, faith, growth, goals—beyond the surface.

Build a shared life, not just a shared schedule.

Proverbs 5:18 (MSG) says: “Enjoy the wife you married as a young man. Lovely as an angel, beautiful as a rose—don’t ever quit taking delight in her body. Never take her love for granted!”

You didn’t marry each other just to raise kids and pay bills.
You married to build a life, leave a legacy, and enjoy the journey—together.

Let your love grow deeper than duty.
Because one day, it’ll just be you two again…
Will there still be laughter? Curiosity? Friendship?
Start planting those seeds today.

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear child of God Apart from marrying a good person, pray u marry from a good family 👌Apostle David Blessing Matsitse
02/03/2026

Dear child of God

Apart from marrying a good person, pray u marry from a good family 👌

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear child of God WHEN A GOOD MAN WALKS AWAY — HE DOESN’T COME BACK...✍️Let’s be brutally honest. Most women fumble good...
02/03/2026

Dear child of God

WHEN A GOOD MAN WALKS AWAY — HE DOESN’T COME BACK...✍️

Let’s be brutally honest. Most women fumble good men because they think he’ll always stay. They mistake patience for weakness. Kindness for desperation. Loyalty for lack of options.

But here’s the cold truth — a man can beg, plead, and endure…
until one day, his silence means it’s over.

Let’s break it down like men:

1️⃣ A Good Man Will Ask for Peace — Not Drama
He’ll tell you when something’s wrong.
He’ll ask for kindness.
He’ll beg for respect.

If you keep serving him insults, attitude, and games — one day he’ll stop asking. And when a man stops speaking, he’s already halfway out the door.

2️⃣ His Loyalty Isn’t Lack of Options
Don’t fool yourself.
That man you think no one else wants?
Some woman out there is praying for a man like him.

And when he leaves — she’ll be waiting.

3️⃣ When a Man Goes Silent, It’s Over
Arguments aren’t the problem.
Tears aren’t the problem.
It’s when a man stops reacting, stops caring, and stops fighting.
That’s the death sentence.

You’re watching him detach — and no amount of crying will reverse it.

4️⃣ Another Woman Will Enjoy What You Threw Away
The man you mocked.
The man you ignored.
The man you stressed out.

Will build a peaceful life with a woman who values him.
And you’ll watch it happen.

5️⃣ Regret Hits Hard When It’s Too Late
When he’s holding someone else.
When another woman is calling him king.
When you’re standing in the rain like a fool asking,
“Was I that easy to forget?”

It won’t matter anymore.

6️⃣ A Man’s Peace Is Priceless
You can be beautiful.
You can be freaky.
You can cook the best meals.

If you can’t give him peace, you’re disposable.
A good man would rather sleep alone in a shack than share a mansion with a disrespectful woman.

7️⃣ There Are No Do-Overs When He’s Done
Beg.
Cry.
Blame his friends.

When a man finally leaves — he’s gone.
Not bitter.
Not angry.
Just free.

So...✍️

Stop mistaking a good man’s tolerance for weakness.
Stop assuming he’ll always stay because he loves you.

Love without peace is punishment.
And no sane man stays in hell just because he built the house.

Value your man, or watch another woman thank you for delivering him straight into her arms.

Let that burn.

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

27/02/2026

Dear child of God

My calling was not a conference call , and God didn't need your approval and validation for my calling.

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear child of God REPOSTMEN HAVE PAINS  TOOA woman said to me,  'It took me years to really know that men cry too.  I to...
25/02/2026

Dear child of God

REPOST

MEN HAVE PAINS TOO

A woman said to me, 'It took me years to really know that men cry too. I took my husband for a super human. I see him leave the house everyday and come back providing for us. One day as I have left the house and he was at home, I remembered that I needed to take something along, I turned back and headed home. As I got home, I tried going through the back door which was closer to the window of our room. I heard my husband crying like a baby asking God to help me get a job so I can help him fend for the family. He has never complained to me before but that day, I broke down in tears realizing that my husband has held much of his pains alone"

A young married lady went to her mother and complained that her husband has not always bought things she wanted from him. The mother asked her, 'How many of those things have you bought for yourself?". She stayed quiet and said, 'But he is my husband?". The mother replied her, 'Have you ever found out the things your husband wants you to buy for him?".

Men always try to hide their pains.

Men can be financially broke and pretend to have everything.

Most men are married but they have lonely life. Sometimes, ask your husband out. Men are not always busy as women think.

You have to understand that your husband has pains and needs too. Don't judge him by things you want from him. Sometimes, your husband doesn't have things you want.

Men also have emotional needs and problems. Men still cry for love...

Apostle David Blessing matsitse

Dear child of God The kind of woman I need to marry is a woman who understands purpose and calling.Because I have childr...
25/02/2026

Dear child of God

The kind of woman I need to marry is a woman who understands purpose and calling.

Because I have children, I need a woman who has a mother’s heart—loving, patient, nurturing, and emotionally mature.

As a Prophet, I need a woman who:
Respects the call of God on my life
Is spiritually grounded and prayerful
Understands ministry demands without competing with the calling
Brings peace, not pressure, into my life and home

She must be:
Emotionally healed and secure
Wise in communication and respectful in character

A woman who values family, order, and integrity

Willing to build a godly home, not just enjoy a title

Marriage for me is not about status or appearance—it is about alignment, stability, and destiny.

“He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord.” — Proverbs 18:22

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear child of God Marriage without financial discipline is just two people stressing each other ❤️ 💰
20/10/2025

Dear child of God

Marriage without financial discipline is just two people stressing each other ❤️ 💰

13/09/2025

Dear friend.

Marriages are living in lie, why do we have to fake just to get people's attention, if what is on facebook was real we will be in a better world

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

13/09/2025

Dear child of God.

If you don't teach yourselves as a couple to follow Christ, the world will offer you many options that will eventually drive you apart.

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear Child of God May the only thing that grows old in your marriage be the two of you. May every other aspect of your r...
13/09/2025

Dear Child of God

May the only thing that grows old in your marriage be the two of you. May every other aspect of your relationship grow newer each day.

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear Child of God A GOOD Husband becomes a BETTER Husband when the RIGHT wife is in his corner 💯Apostle David Blessing M...
29/08/2025

Dear Child of God

A GOOD Husband becomes a BETTER Husband when the RIGHT wife is in his corner 💯

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

Dear Child of GodKeep it private until it's done. It's not only people who die prematurely, but also ideas and dreams. S...
28/08/2025

Dear Child of God

Keep it private until it's done. It's not only people who die prematurely, but also ideas and dreams. Stop talking too much. Change your lifestyle and watch the space. God is about to do something for you, but it needs to be kept private.

Apostle David Blessing Matsitse

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