Deacon Thoughts

Deacon Thoughts Homilies, Reflections, and other thoughts from a Catholic Deacon. My name is Deacon Phillip Uro. I am a happily married pro-life e5 man with a loving family.

I love God, my wife, my daughters, serving as a Deacon, and of course the Eucharist [Mass and Adoration]! I love God, my wife, my daughters, Mass, Adoration, Music Ministry, Youth Ministry, Dancing, Coaching, Knights of Columbus, & being a Deacon.

​I have a B.A. in Philosophy with a Concentration in Religious Studies from Mount Angel Seminary. After five years of formation with the Archdiocese

of Saint Louis, I was ordained a Deacon on June 4, 2022. I'm currently assigned to serve the Parishioners of Saints Joachim and Ann in Saint Charles, MO. I created this Page to help promote my blog "Deacon Thoughts," where I am posting my homilies and reflections.

07/26/2026

We believe that Jesus is truly God and truly human, and this feast of his grandparents is a testimony to that faith. While the names Joachim and Anne may be legendary, we know that Jesus had grandparents in the parents of Mary (as well as those of Saint Joseph). Our God truly became human and lived....

07/25/2026

Apostle Saint James the Greater, brother of Saint John and one of the three who spent time with the Lord on significant occasions, was a fisherman called by Jesus to follow him. Most likely, he was the first to be martyred, and witness to the faith with his blood. He and Saint John were nicknamed .....

07/24/2026

Saint Sharbel Makhlouf was a Lebanese Maronite Rite monk, one of the Eastern Catholic Churches who follow a slightly different liturgy and canon law. We in the Latin or Roman Rite often forget that we have sisters and brothers in the East. Saint Sharbel is a good reminder of the wider Church.

07/23/2026

Saint Bridget of Sweden was married, a mother of eight, and the foundress of a monastery for men and women. She spent her final days in Rome seeking to correct Church abuses for which she received much opposition.

07/22/2026

Whether or not Saint Mary Magdalene was a notorious sinner—and she most likely was not—she was one of the women who traveled with Jesus and the Apostles, and was present at the cross. She also was the one chosen to bring the good news of the resurrection to the Apostles.

07/21/2026

A Capuchin Franciscan, Saint Lawrence of Brindisi was a scholar, administrator, preacher, and lover of the poor. Versed in many languages, Saint Lawrence was an outstanding scripture scholar and used his knowledge of the holy writings to produce many homilies. He served his community as Minister Gen...

07/21/2026

WHY WOMEN CAN'T BE PRIESTS IN THE CATHOLIC CHURCH?

This question is one of the most debated in our time.
Many ask:

“If men and women are equal before God, why can’t women be ordained as priests? Isn’t this discrimination?”

The truth is far from discrimination, it is a mystery of divine choice, rooted in Christ Himself.

1. JESUS CHOSE MEN, AND NOT BY ACCIDENT

When Jesus established the priesthood at the Last Supper, He deliberately chose 12 men as His apostles (Luke 22:19-20).
This was not because women were unworthy or inferior, in fact, women were among His closest followers (Mary Magdalene, Martha, Mary of Bethany).
But Jesus, who broke every unjust cultural barrier, still did not choose women for the ministerial priesthood.

The Church teaches that this was not cultural conditioning but divine will.
As Pope St. John Paul II wrote:

“The Church has no authority whatsoever to confer priestly ordination on women… and this judgment is to be definitively held by all the faithful.” (Ordinatio Sacerdotalis, 4)

2. PRIESTS STAND “IN PERSONA CHRISTI” (IN THE PERSON OF CHRIST)

In the Mass, the priest is not just a representative of the community,
he stands in the place of Christ the Bridegroom, offering Himself to His Bride, the Church.
This spousal mystery, Christ (the Bridegroom) and the Church (the Bride), is reflected in the male priesthood.

Just as only a woman can be a biological mother, only a man can sacramentally represent Christ as Bridegroom.
This is not about superiority but about sacramental signs that must reflect divine realities.

3. WOMEN HAVE A UNIQUE, IRREPLACEABLE ROLE

The greatest human being ever created was not a priest, but a woman.
The Blessed Virgin Mary is higher than every priest, bishop, and pope!
Yet she was not ordained. Why?
Because Mary’s holiness and mission show that dignity is not about roles or power but about closeness to God.

Women mirror the Church herself, the Bride, the Mother, the one who receives and bears life.
In fact, the Church says women reveal a dimension of God’s love that men alone cannot reflect.

4. PRIESTHOOD IS A CALL, NOT A RIGHT

No one, not even a man, has a “right” to be a priest.
Priesthood is a gift and a calling from Christ, not a position of power or human achievement.
If it were about power, Mary would have been the first priest.

5. THE BEAUTY OF COMPLEMENTARITY

God created men and women not to compete but to complement each other.
The male priesthood and the feminine genius of women together reveal the full beauty of the Church.

St. Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa) once said:

“If the priest is not holy, the people will not be holy. But if there are no holy mothers, there will be no holy priests. My work is not to be a priest, but to be the mother of priests.”

NOT DISCRIMINATION BUT MYSTERY

The Church does not ordain women not because they are “less,”
but because Christ chose this way to show His spousal love for the Church.

Men and women are equal in dignity but different in roles,
just like Christ and His Bride are different yet perfectly united.

So, when someone asks you:
“Why can’t women be priests?”
You can answer:

“Because the priesthood is not a question of power or equality, but of divine symbolism and Christ’s own choice. Women are not excluded, they have their own irreplaceable mission, and Mary herself proves that holiness, not ordination, is the highest calling.”

07/20/2026
07/20/2026

Unwilling to take no for an answer, Saint Apollinaris was exiled from Ravenna several times, but he always returned trying to preach the good news to the people. He finally died of a beating he received in a suburb of Ravenna.

07/20/2026

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