04/30/2026
April 29, 2026 is a day our family will never forget. It is not the path we would have chosen, but we rest in the truth that God’s plans are never wrong. After a year-long battle with cancer, Debbie was finally and completely healed.
The medical staff did everything they could to help her regain strength while keeping her comfortable. A world-class team labored tirelessly to restore her health. But this was not God’s sovereign plan, and we trust Him.
We are so thankful our girls were able to arrive in time to see their mom. Each of us had moments alone with her, and also time together as a family. There were many tears, but there was also joy and laughter as we remembered and celebrated the countless blessings God gave us through Debbie.
On the morning before she passed, we were all gathered around her bed. I asked, “Debbie, can you hear us?” She gently but clearly nodded her head. One by one, we shared our love with her and told her what a blessing she had been to our lives. Then I said, “Debbie, if you know how much you are loved, will you squeeze your eyes tightly?” Instantly, and with unmistakable strength, she squeezed her eyes shut and wrinkled her forehead. There was a collective gasp, we knew she heard us, and she knew she was loved. It is a moment we will treasure forever.
That was our last clear communication with her. In the hours that followed, her heart remained strong, but her body was tired. It was evident she was ready to meet her Savior face to face. We were able to hold her hands, read Scripture, and pray over her in her final moments. I sang one of our favorite songs, “Be at Rest,” and within minutes, her time on earth was complete.
For years, I’ve quietly kept track of the “bonus days” I had with Debbie. I started counting on June 16, 2014, right after she nearly died from liver disease. Yesterday, as she left us, I thanked God for 4,337 extra days with my wife, my soulmate, my best friend.
Debbie had not been able to eat or drink by mouth since June 4 of last year. She often said how much she longed for a glass of ice-cold water. Today, she thirsts no more. She is home, and she is drinking deeply of the Water of Life in Christ.
Thank you all for your kindness to our family. Your prayers have sustained us. Your messages have encouraged us more than you know.
We are not rushing final arrangements, but we do plan to have a Celebration of Life service in both Florida and North Carolina. We will share details here as they come together. God is good!