09/10/2026
Thursday:
Read “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.” Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.”
Ephesians 6:1-4 NIV
Children, do not quote “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger” as an excuse for rebellion, disrespect, dishonor, or refusing correction.
Parents, do not quote “Honor your father and mother” as a shield for pride, harshness, manipulation, control, or behavior that repeatedly wounds your children.
God did not give either side a Scripture to weaponize against the other while ignoring the command that applies to themselves.
Children are accountable for their attitude, words, obedience, and honor, and parents are accountable for their leadership, discipline, example, and treatment of their children.
A parent being wrong does not automatically make a child’s disrespect right, and a child being wrong does not give a parent permission to respond in an ungodly way.
Both generations must be willing to repent when pride, anger, bitterness, rebellion, or control has taken over the relationship.
If you only quote the verse that corrects the other person, you may be using the Bible to defend yourself instead of allowing the Bible to correct you.
Before pointing Scripture across the room, make sure you have first allowed that same Word to examine your own heart.
Bishop Willie Clifton