10/23/2026
JESUS WEPT
God With Tears
"Jesus wept." — John 11:35 (NKJV)
One of the shortest verse in the Bible, and somehow one of the heaviest.
Let’s take a look at the context. Mary and Martha sent word to Jesus that their brother Lazarus was sick. Jesus didn't rush. He stayed two more days where He was, and by the time He arrived in Bethany, Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days (John 11:17). Martha met Him first and said, "Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died" (John 11:21). Mary came next, fell at His feet, and said the same thing (John 11:32). The people around them were weeping. And then, before He called Lazarus out of the tomb, Jesus wept.
He didn't weep because He couldn't fix it. He knew exactly what He was about to do. He had already told Martha, "Your brother will rise again" (John 11:23). He wept anyway.
You want to know why this matters? Let’s see, so some people read "Jesus wept" and only see proof that He was human. That's true but it's not the half of it. Hebrews 4:15 says, "For we do not have a High Priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but was in all points tempted as we are, yet without sin." Jesus didn't just observe our pain from a distance. He entered it. He stood at the grave of a man He loved and felt the weight of death that sin brought into the world (Romans 5:12). His tears weren't performative. They were real.
Isaiah 53:3 prophesied He would be "a Man of sorrows and acquainted with grief." That wasn't metaphor. That was the God of the universe in the dirt, weeping with people He created, over a death He came to defeat.
Let’s look at some examples:
• David mourned openly for his son Absalom even though Absalom had rebelled against him: "O my son Absalom... would I had died instead of you!" (2 Samuel 18:33). A father's tears for a wayward child are not weakness. They are love wearing grief.
• Jeremiah wept for a nation that wouldn't listen: "Oh, that my head were waters, and my eyes a fountain of tears, that I might weep day and night for the slain of the daughter of my people!" (Jeremiah 9:1). He preached judgment, but he never stopped feeling the weight of it.
• Peter wept bitterly after denying the Lord (Luke 22:62). His tears weren't despair. They were the beginning of repentance that led him back to Christ.
Each of these men wept, and God did not despise their tears. Psalm 34:18 says, "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves such as have a contrite spirit."
Real life:
You might be in a hospital waiting room and the doctor comes out with that look on his face. You're staring at your phone reading a text that just changed everything. You're sitting in a room with someone you love who is destroying themselves and you can't make them stop. You're carrying a burden you haven't told anyone about because you're supposed to be the strong one.
The world says, "Keep it together. Don't let them see you sweat. Handle your business." Scripture says the Son of God stood at a grave and cried. He didn't lecture. He didn't quote a proverb at Mary. He didn't tell Martha to have more faith. He wept.
That changes everything about how we carry grief. You don't have to pretend. You don't have to have the right words. You don't have to spiritualize your pain. The same Lord who raised Lazarus from the dead first stood outside his tomb and cried. Your tears are not a failure of faith. They are proof you're made in the image of a God who weeps with you before He moves for you.
Don’t hold it back, let it out because you are human.
Be blessed, family. I love you all very much.
-E&R
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