05/11/2023
Handling Life’s Transitions Well
I’ve been thinking a lot lately about the many major life transitions we go through…and how we handle them.
They come at us early—when children start school, when they enter middle school, high school, or leave home for college. Marriage is also a huge change. And transitions can come later in life—when children leave the nest, when you lose your job, when you hit middle age (mid-life crisis!), you retire, or your spouse passes away. These challenges are not always of our own choosing and can often feel traumatic, causing great anxiety.
We went through a big transition last year when we retired to the St. George area. We found it challenging to move far from a familiar place where we felt comfortable and start over in a different area--trying to make new friends and, basically, re-establishing ourselves. At this age, change can be hard! Not to mention the stress or the recurring feeling, “Are my best years behind me?”
The thing that’s getting us through is our faith. We prayed to our Heavenly Father about our choice to be here and received a definitive answer from Him—so we acted. And He continues to give us the strength to keep going and make the most of our situation. He will never abandon us. He will also help us turn our weaknesses into strengths, as we approach Him with humility. Transitions are a time to grow our spiritual strength. Time and perspective also help. And unexpected blessings often emerge.
A wise woman once said, “Every transition, every change, gives us a chance to choose again to have faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and in the principles of His gospel. According to Isaiah, the Lord has promised…’Fear thou not; for I am with thee….For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand…; I will help thee.’” (Isaiah 41:10, 13)
Just remember change is always around the corner. It’s a part of life. And it can be a good thing. Find the positives that can come from difficult situations and actively look for the tender mercies that follow. Be grateful and count your blessings—daily. Focus on the future and turn to God to help see you through. Through prayer, He is always there.
Michelle King
The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints