08/26/2026
The Many Ways We Encounter the Sacred
Faith can provide a person with a sense of security, love, acceptance, specialness and purpose. Its language is understood deeply within our hearts, its prayers lift us high, and the communities of spirit offer a sense of home and acceptance. For many of us, finding an inclusive community after experiencing rejection from the denomination in which we were raised, creates not only a desire to delve deeper into faith but also to become very protective over something so precious to us.
Feeling protective is a natural occurrence, but our Franciscan tradition invites us to hold that love for our own faith with utmost humility. We are called to remember that there are other paths to spiritual growth which may be very different from ours, but which carry our sisters and brothers to their own relationship with God. Blessed John Duns Scotus, a Franciscan priest who was born about 40 years after St. Francis of Assisi’s death, spoke of the haecceitas, the “thisness,” of each created being. In regards to people, it can be defined as the uniqueness of each person, and also the imprint Of God’s specific love for a person as an irreplaceable individual.
Keeping in mind that if every human being is unique in their creation, then each person also encounters the world from a perspective unlike anyone else's. It should not surprise us, then, that different expressions of faith resonate with different people, or even life for some which claims no established faith system. Some denominations have difficulty with the concept of an “inclusive” stance within an organized religion, and thus those who are followers have their own challenges in understanding or accepting us. This difficulty may cause us to become defensive and protective, and possibly even judgemental towards those who question our beliefs and lives. Yet, as Franciscans, our mission is to continually look for and embrace the love of God which resides within all people.
We are “not to engage in arguments or disputes, but be subject to every human creature for God’s sake.” These words were written by St Francis in his Earlier Rule to keep his friars from gaining an aggressive stance towards others and to always strive to move in and with humility. As Franciscans in an inclusive community, perhaps our first question should therefore not be, “Do they believe as I believe?” but rather, “What fruit is being born from the way they live?” Is faith, or whatever understanding of life guides them, opening their hearts toward compassion, generosity, mercy, justice, peace, and love? What can we do to help them understand that the love they search for is exactly what we want as well? Honesty, humility and keeping the door open to dialogue and relationship do more to honor God and our faith than any walls built to protect ourselves from judgement.
Throughout our lifelong conversion, we must be willing to keep asking ourselves if we are keeping the door open to others who may be very different from us, or have we, as the result of judgement, closed ourselves off to keep from potentially being challenged or hurt? Many of us know personally what religious judgment can do. It closed the door on something which we treasured in our past, causing us to seek out inclusive communities. Our Christian identity means very little if it becomes another reason to judge, exclude, or diminish another human being.
We should remember, too, that Francis and Clare, who wanted nothing more than to follow the path of Jesus, embraced people whom others wanted to remove from their lives. In doing this, Francis was considered foolish, and Clare was judged for resisting the expectations placed upon her by family and society. Jesus, too, was repeatedly judged for the people with whom he ate, the people he touched, and the boundaries he crossed. Yet, he openly, willingly and lovingly offered himself to all. This is the path we are called to emulate.
An additional question we could ask ourselves is, “Does what I believe make me more capable of loving? If our devotion to Jesus makes us gentler, if our Sacramental life makes us more generous, if our love of Francis and Clare makes us more attentive to all people, and if our experience of the Sacred Heart makes our own hearts more spacious, then our faith is bearing fruit. When encountering someone whose path is different from ours, perhaps we don’t need to begin by asking how far they are from us, and instead wonder what God may already be doing within them, as we remember that the same infinite Love that holds us also holds them.