05/29/2026
To pray for someone more diligently:
From the Old Believer Prayer Book, with **lines in italics added
Save, O Lord, and have mercy on Thy servant(s) ________, [bow]
Deliver him (her, them) from every tribulation, wrath and need [bow],
From every sickness of soul and body, [bow]
Forgive him (her, them) every transgression, voluntary and involuntary, [bow]
*Teach them to pray and to live with purpose. [bow]
*Erase the harm my sins may have caused him (her, them)
And do whatever is profitable for our souls. [bow].
Note: We can cause harm to people whether we intend to or not by causing them temptations which they succumb to and therefore sin, or giving them grief or making them unstable psychologically, and countless other things.
Certainly, if we intentionally harm someone, we are responsible for their behavior that comes about because of, or related to the harm, AND we are even responsible when we unintentionally harm someone, whether or not we are aware that we have harmed them, and whether or not this harm causes them to sin.
The Christian knows that it does not matter if someone has harmed us, we are always responsible for the harm that we give to them, even if we are responding to something they have done to us. They are responsible for their behaviors, and we are also responsible for their behaviors that have been caused by our negligence, anger, or cruelty, gossip, and a thousand other ways in which we show that we do not love our neighbor as ourselves.
It is a Christian duty, borne out of love, to pray for many people. We should certainly pray for those who are very close to us and we love very much, and we should also pray for those that we have had difficulties with. Sometimes life is ambiguous and we feel at fault also for difficulties in relationships. Whether we are at fault or not, a Christian recognizes that it is possible to harm someone without even knowing it. Therefore, I have added the penultimate petition to this prayer. The one before it is also when I added because I personally feel that the most important thing that a person can have and that we should pray for is that they have purpose and know how to pray. If we know how to pray everything can be achieved.
We can always pray for a person simply by merely saying “Lord have mercy upon N.” however sometimes we need to do something a little extra, and this prayer is very good for this.