10/26/2026
There is a Buddhist term: spiritual friend. Shakyamuni Buddha encourages us to associate with spiritual friends and keep away from unwholesome friends. This is similar to what Confucius says, "Associate with exemplary people and keep away from petty people." How do we identify spiritual friends? They benefit us in a positive way and give us honest advice. As for ourselves, though we might not yet qualify as a spiritual friend to others, we should learn to be one.
Excerpt from "The Buddhadharma in Daily Life" by Master Sheng Yen. Free copies available at Chan Meditation Center and digital copy at https://www.chancenter.org/download/free-books/The-Buddharma-in-Daily-Life.pdf?fbclid=IwY2xjawVLb-pleHRuA2FlbQIxMABwZG9mAWJyaWQRMUZobUZjUzRKbWpBa2sxNTVzcnRjBmFwcF9pZBAyMjIwMzkxNzg4MjAwODkyAAEepOBoCacew4ScgWzanzJrdQt3D6GSYcRsJw5wwDO3BIEsBH6waKgUimjm5NA_aem_cWoIr9O7Yujhse3VN4Tkfg
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