06/20/2026
Happy Caturday! Baby Cat is here to remind you that it's healthy to say "I'm not ok" right now. In the long run, trying to fake it until you make it is a recipe for physical, mental, and emotional disaster. But when we acknowledge the struggle, we can make a plan to navigate it.
When I (Erica) was struggling with my dissertation (after having my second kid and a less-than-stellar set of experiences with my committee), someone told me "just write for 15 minutes a day. You can do something hard for 15 minutes. And then if you feel ok about it you can keep going, and if you don't you have full permission to stop." And they were right. 15 minutes was better than 0 minutes, and having a plan that made me feel cared for gave me the security to sit down and work.
When you're tired or scared, what people, things, or practices help you keep showing up for yourself?