Blessed Unity

Blessed Unity Conflict Resolution Services: Conflict counseling, conciliation, & mediation services and
• Is it seriously hurting the offender himself? All Rights Reserved.

Our ministry is based on the firm belief that as Christians we are guided by God's Word to respond to conflict in a way different from the world. Basic Conflict Principles

Conflict is an opportunity to:
• Glorify God
• Serve other people
• Grow to be like Christ

Get the log out of your own eye
Identify wrongs - admit wrongs honestly and thoroughly.
• Address everyone involved
• Avoid if, but

, and maybe
• Admit specifically
• Acknowledge the hurt
• Accept the consequences
• Alter your behavior
• Ask for forgiveness

Gently restore when an offense can not be overlooked (Prov. 19:11)
• Is the offense seriously dishonoring God?
• Has it permanently damaged a relationship?
• Is it seriously hurting other people? The process of gently restoring
• Pray for humility and wisdom
• Plan your words carefully
• Anticipate likely reactions and plan appropriate responses
• Choose the right time and place
• Assume the best about the other person until you have facts to prove otherwise (Prov. 11:27)
• Listen carefully (Prov. 18:13)
• Speak only to build others up (Eph. 4:29)
• Ask for feedback from the other person
• Recognize your limits (only God can change people; see Rom. 12:18; 2 Tim. 2:24-26)

Go and be reconciled
• I will not think about this incident.
• I will not bring this incident up and use it against you.
• I will not talk to others about this incident.
• I will not allow this incident to stand between us or hinder our personal relationship. The "PAUSE" Principle of Negotiation:
• Prepare
• Affirm relationships
• Understand interests
• Search for creative solutions & Evaluate
The information above, beginning with the Basic Conflict Principles, is adapted from The Peacemaker: A Biblical Guide to Resolving Personal Conflict. © 1997, 2003 by Ken Sande.

02/28/2026

Demolish Strongholds

“For though we live in the world, we do not wage war as the world does. The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” 2 Corinthians 10:3-5

Strongholds are Satan’s attempt to strangle spiritual life out of the saints of God. The enemy is not slack in his attacks; indeed he is always on the prowl to pronounce judgment and dispense shame. Some of his strategic strongholds are pride, addiction, and self-absorption. He sucks in a susceptible heart and a wandering mind with alluring sin. The devil builds a faithless fortress and launches missiles of doubt with false ideologies.

How do strongholds take hold and grow in our life? Ironically, a strength can become a stronghold. Healthy confidence drifts into arrogance. The gift of discernment grows into a judgmental attitude. The discipline to work out regularly and eat right becomes an obsession that consumes every minute of our discretionary time. The goal to get ahead financially grows into greed and a sense of superiority. A strength can be a stronghold.

“The LORD is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer; my God is my rock, in whom I take refuge, my shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” Psalm 18:2

The Lord is good—Satan is bad. The Lord clarifies—Satan confuses. The Lord offers freedom—Satan enlists bo***ge. The Lord gives grace—Satan pours on guilt. The Lord forgives—Satan shames. The Lord creates contentment—Satan drives for more. The Lord loves people—Satan hates people. The Lord wants what’s best for you—Satan wants what’s worse for you. The Lord gives—Satan takes.

It takes divine power to pull down and demolish strongholds. Your savior Jesus has overcome and destroyed Satan’s strongholds. Start by faith to replace any destructive strongholds with the Lord as your stronghold. Replace the stronghold of alcohol abuse with the stronghold of the Lord’s sobriety. Substitute the stronghold of anger with Almighty God’s stronghold of patient forgiveness. Divine strongholds defeat Satan’s. Trust in the Lord tears down demonic strongholds and erects His faithful fortress.

“The LORD is good, A stronghold in the day of trouble; And He knows those who trust in Him.” Nahum 1:7, NKJV

What single stronghold do I need to demolish by faith and replace with the Lord’s?

Related Readings: Psalm 9:9; 27:1; 37:39; Lamentations 2:2-5

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