10/24/2021
Dear Brothers on the other side who haven't yet found the reckless love of Christ. I thought about you today, and I just wanted to take a minute to share this with you quickly. Please read whenever you find the time...
If you are dating a woman you intend to marry, I mean, if you've found the woman you seriously want to spend the rest of your life with, please take your time to do a projection on the following;
HER BODY
🚫 Understand that women go through a lot of physical changes, almost in every area of their body, especially those selling point areas that probably attracted you to her; I'm talking about her b***s and buttocks, hips and waist. Look at her with the eyes of the future, envision how wide or how skinny she will look in a few years from now, and see if the changes are something you will naturally want to go through with.
⚠️ Alot of times the reason why an un-spirited man will cheat on his wife is not because he doesn't love her per say, yes he does, the challenge is just that he loves the other version of her, the version he fell in love with from the start, the version that came with a flawless face, standing b***s and a starched buttocks, not the chubby version she has become after a few months of marriage, not the version that can no longer fit into a nice dress, let alone jeans. Not this version with a wardrobe full of wrappers because it's the only thing that can fit. You catch the gist right?
⛔ Do a projection and picture how she will look in the morrow, then fall in love with the idea of who she is growing to be, just as you are in love with the picture of who she is right now.
➕ Faithful men are those who are committed to loving their wives through every season of her changes;
✔ When she's pregnant and all swollen up.
✔ When she doesn't look as attractive as you will like because she's breastfeeding.
✔ Those somewhat annoying moments when she'll just carelessly take out her breast to comfort your child in front of your friends and it doesn't bother her, gosh it can be crazy, and I know that you get the idea what I'm talking about. But God-men love their wives the most even in this crazy seasons.
❗I am writing to you because it's important that you understand and accept these realities since you are on the other side of Christ. It is hard enough that you haven't accepted Jesus as your Saviour, but what the Lord doesn't want is For you to end up in another bad marriage, for you to become another unfaithful husband, because that can make it really complicated for Him to get to you. Please consider this realities if you are still living in the flesh.
🔥 For some of us who are dead in Christ, we have sworn to love our wives come thin, thick or chubby. No matter the changes she goes through our love follows her all the way.
For us, loving our wife through all seasons is not a choice, it is a life covenant. We understand that she belongs to God no matter the body changes she undergoes. So when she's skinny we become caretakers of God's skinny vessel. And when she gets chubby we also become caretakers of God's chubby vessel, the only difference is that this time we will have to start working out in other to keep up with her updated image of God. 😀😀😀.
But guess what? In all of these changes, the kingdom values of a supernatural woman will stay the same, and that is what is most important to us.
