07/31/2026
A few days ago, my dear friend John Kalenak passed away peacefully in Las Vegas.
John was much more than a friend. He was a noble companion on the spiritual path for many years. We traveled together on numerous retreats, including a memorable pilgrimage to Japan with his beloved wife, Graciela. Those journeys were filled with learning, laughter, mindfulness, and countless meaningful conversations that I will always treasure.
John was a true practitioner of the Buddha’s teachings. He did not simply read the Dhamma he lived it. Every day he studied the suttas with great dedication, investigated their meaning, and asked thoughtful questions that inspired deeper understanding. During our sutta study programs, John had a remarkable gift for taking the traditional language of the scriptures and expressing it in simple, clear English so others could more easily understand the Buddha’s wisdom. His quiet service benefited many people, often without them ever knowing his name.
John also embodied generosity. Month after month, without ever being asked, he would send me a donation to help with my personal expenses. It was never about obligation. It was simply his way of expressing kindness, gratitude, and support. I will always remember that generosity with a grateful heart.
Dear Graciela and Neil, during this time of sorrow, please know that my heart is with you. Although I deeply miss John, I also rejoice in the beautiful life he lived and the wholesome qualities he cultivated. His journey was one of sincerity, wisdom, generosity, and compassion.
In the Buddha’s teaching, everything that arises must pass away. Yet the goodness we cultivate, the love we share, and the lives we touch continue to echo in the hearts of others. Though John’s physical presence is no longer with us, the memories he created, the kindness he offered, and the inspiration he gave will remain alive in all of us.
May you journey onward in peace, my noble friend. Thank you for your friendship, your wisdom, your generosity, and your unwavering dedication to the Dhamma.
You will be deeply missed, lovingly remembered, and forever appreciated.
May you attain the highest peace.
Venerable Bhante Sujatha Allison Lewis 🙏
