Center of Relational Development

24/05/2026

16/05/2026

When your identity is anchored in God, you no longer have to chase validation.

01/05/2026

After two decades in the trenches of relationships - where she has seen everything from cold wars over dishwasher loading techniques to full-blown emotional standoffs - Cindy Jacob Southworth walks into chaos, pulls up a chair, and says, "Alright, it's time to tell the truth" wile everyone else is still pretending things are "fine." She is equal parts strategist, soul surgeon, and spiritual disruptor. She's either helping couples rebuild connection or she's redesigning a coaching framework. She doesn't do fluff. And she doesn't let people stay stuck if they are willing to do the work. She's not in it to play coach -- she's here to change lives.

Coming in May 2026. Check your email soon for details. Not on my email list? Email me at [email protected] and ask to be added.

30/04/2026

Are you carrying something heavy that you were never meant to carry alone? Letting Go is a guided interactive coaching experience created with you in mind. You don't have to stay stuck. Healing begins when you loosen your grip.

Coming May 2026.

25/04/2026

Want a great marriage? STOP being defensive, critical, contemptuous, or stonewalling. START communicating what you really need.

22/04/2026

The Center of Relational Development is a resource hub designed to strengthen relationships and equip those who serve others. It offers practical, faith-informed tools, coaching materials, and structured programs to help couples grow in connection, communication, and emotional health. In addition, it supports counselors, coaches, and ministry leaders with high-quality resources they can confidently use to guide others toward lasting relational growth.

20/04/2026

After retiring from ministry in 2025 and walking through a season of major surgery and recovery, I’ve come to recognize that God is calling me into a new season of relational ministry—I’m not done. I’m excited to introduce the Center of Relational Development (CORD), a new resource dedicated to strengthening couples and equipping counselors and coaches with practical, high-quality materials. I’ll be sharing more soon about the launch, but in the meantime, I’m available for individual and couples coaching and would love to reconnect with you.

06/02/2026

Integrity matters.
Keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.
1 Peter 3:16
When we choose integrity, even in difficult moments, we let our lives speak louder than accusations. A clear conscience brings peace, confidence, and freedom, no matter what others may say.

Breakwater Coaching
Because your relationships matter

Phone: 863-524-2368
Website: Breakwaterministries.com

04/02/2026

What is the difference between knowledge and wisdom?
Knowledge is information we gather.
Wisdom is knowing how—and when—to apply what we know.
Life often tests us at the point where knowledge alone isn’t enough. Wisdom is formed as we choose endurance, humility, and trust in God, even in moments of temptation and trial.
“Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love Him.”
James 1:12
Breakwater Coaching
Because your relationships matter
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