10/20/2020
✢Carole Lee Thew ✢
(July 14, 1944 - October 7, 2020)
Carole Lee Thew was born to Edward and June Stalf on July 14, 1944 in Tacoma, Washington, joined later in the Thew home by sister, Nancy and brother, Edward. She began a lifelong walk with Christ through baptism in 1944, later confirming her faith in Christ in 1956 at St. Ann Catholic Church in West Palm Beach, Florida, after the family settled in Florida in the late 1940s. Carole kept close to Christ and welcomed the steady influence of God's Word and His Church throughout her entire life, while journeying with Christ down many avenues of service in His kingdom.
Gifted with exceptional intelligence and a lifelong love for learning Carole distinguished herself both academically and professionally. After graduating from high school she received a degree in Business Management and began a successful and rewarding career in engineering as a valued employee and contractor for numerous companies, including Pratt and Whitney and AT&T and BellSouth.
While attending college Carole met and fell in love with Patrick Thew and they were married on March 13, 1964, a union that thrived on love, trust and devotion for 39 years until Patrick suffered a massive stroke and died on March 31, 2003. Their marriage was blessed with a daughter, Michelle and a son, Michael and Carole's great love for family grew over the years as she welcomed and greatly enjoyed and nurtured her grandsons, Mitch and Wayne, and just recently, her great-grandson, Logan.
Carole joined the fellowship of Trinity Lutheran Church in 2007 and quickly became an integral part of the life and ministry of the congregation. Her encouraging presence could be seen at almost every church function and she could always be found in the church kitchen, where she excelled in her role as Congregational Cook. Scarcely a member would remain untouched by her personal ministry of caring, comfort and concern ... gifts that were generously extended to the people in her life in countless ways. Carole served her church in a multitude of capacities, and solidly grounded her life on regular worship and consistent study of God's Word. She always brought her special insights, her questions and her direct honesty with her to the gathering of God's people, always enriching the fellowship of her church. She greatly loved and was loved by the people of Trinity.
Carole was an avid reader with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge and learning. She also expanded her horizon by traveling the world, often taking 2-3 trips a year. She consistently gave back to her community, but always devoted herself to her greatest joys ... her family and faith. In carrying out her many duties and commitments so competently and compassionately, Carole provided an excellent role model to her family, friends and peers, not dwelling on negatives, but always capable of seeing good in every person and the positive side of every situation, seasoning her acts of kindness with a well-maintained sense of humor.
Over the years Carole's health, but not her courageous spirit and firm faith, was compromised by numerous setbacks to her physical well-being. Recent months found Carole increasingly burdened with her health issues, struggling against persistent infections. Last month took Carole once again back into Lawnwood Hospital to face numerous tests and treatments with minimal benefit to her condition. On October 7 she was finally able to lay aside the burden of illness and disease and discover that sorely needed and much deserved rest and refreshment that heaven and her Lord Jesus Christ supplied her with. While her death brings sorrow to us, it has brought complete victory to Carole.
Carole is survived by her daughter, Michelle, her son Michael, her grandsons, Wesley (Mitch) and Wayne, her great-grandson, Logan, her sister, Nancy, her brother, Edward, and many other friends and relatives.
Carole radiated the presence and attitude of her Lord Jesus Christ in her life, and like Him, she came "to serve and not to be served." To all around her she offered love, kindness and encouragement, living out her faith in Christ with her vibrant personality and beautiful spirit and smile, always making things fun and memorable for those around her. Our memories of her are a treasured gift we take with us into the days ahead. Her refreshing influence will be long felt in the lives of those she now leaves behind. Our families, our lives, our church and indeed, our world, are better for having had Carole in them. Her lifelong example of faith and courage will serve us well until she welcomes the many she loved in this life, and who share her bond to the Lord Jesus, to the gates of glory in eternity.
"Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!" (Matthew 25:21—NIV)
[Obituary prepared by Rev. Craig H. Bode for her funeral service, October 18, 2020]