St. Stephen's UCC Place

St. Stephen's UCC Place We are a protestant Christian church, , located at 8520 Tonawanda Creek Road, East Amherst, NY. Our services are on Sunday mornings at 10:30 am.

We enjoy a 1/2 hour coffee get-together in our Social Hall just next to our sanctuary- please join with us.

05/16/2026

Mother’s Day & Festival of the Christian Home
Exodus 1:22; 2:1–10; 6:20
2 Timothy Epistle 1:1,2; 5-7- Ephesians 3:14–19
Luke 8:21
Taken together, these scriptures tell us that God often does his deepest work in small, insignificant places: in homes, around tables, at bedsides, in ordinary conversations and prayers.
On this Mother’s Day we thank God for mothers, grandmothers, and all who have nurtured life and faith. But we also remember that in Christ we are given a family of faith. Paul says that every family in heaven and on earth is named from the Father, which means the church is not just a crowd or an event—it is a household where all belong.
Courage – Moses
When Pharaoh’s word ran dark through Goshen’s land,
A mother hid her child from sword and fear;
She wove a cradle with a trembling hand,
And launched her hope upon the river near.
Her tear stained faith rode lightly on that stream,
And through her courage, Christ would in time redeem.
Sincere Faith – Timothy
A boy once learned the Scriptures on her knee,
While grandma’s stories traced God’s mighty grace;
In Lois’ voice and Eunice’s certainty
He saw a quiet fire in each worn face.
Their sincere faith breathed life in his young soul,
Till Christ’s own call became his heart’s true goal.
Festival of Christian Family Day
Now gathered here, one household in the Lord,
We claim new kin through water, Word, and bread;
In Christ, our tangled histories are restored,
And lonely hearts find family instead.
O triune God, bind us in holy love,
Your family on earth, your home above.
Ned Holderby May 10, 2026 Mother’s Day Festival of Christian Family Day

05/16/2026

Yahweh Sabaoth – The LORD of Hosts
Psalm 46:1-7, 10,11; Acts 1:9-11; Revelation 19:11-16
Matthew 26:23

When Psalm 46:10 commands us to "Be still, and know that I am God,"
it is not a call to casual relaxation.
In the original Hebrew, "Be still" means to "let our hands drop."
It means surrender. It means to stop frantic, anxious striving.
Why can we let our hands drop today?
Why can we stop worrying?
Because the Christ who died for us has ascended to the throne.
Because He is currently ruling as the LORD of hosts.
Because He is returning in absolute power to set all things right.
The Commander of heaven’s armies has filled our refuge,
secured our future, and He is standing with us
right now in the midst of the storm.

The Throne of Sabaoth
The pillars of the world may shake and slide,
The raging oceans roar against the shore,
Yet in the high tower shall His church abide,
Secure within the fortress evermore.
The LORD of Hosts, who numbers every star,
Who rules the angel armies with a breath,
Has broken through our dark and earthly war,
To strip the crown from sin and vanquish death.
Behold Him now, ascended to the height,
Enthroned in glory, Captain of our peace;
He soon shall split the clouds in blinding light,
With heavenly hosts, whose triumphs never cease.
So drop our hands, be still, and fear no cost:
Our refuge stands—the King of kings is Host.
Ned Holderby May 17, 2026 Yahweh Sabaoth -The LORD of Hosts

04/24/2026

St. Stephen’s UCC April 19, 2026
Third Sunday of Eastertide
Friends in Christ, hear this good news:
Jesus comes to ask us, in love and with deep knowing,
“Do you love Me?”
If in your heart you can say—even with trembling—
“Yes, Lord, You know that I love You,”
then hear His next words as yours to own:
“Feed My lambs. Tend My sheep. Feed My sheep. Follow Me.”
In Jesus, love replaces fear.
In Jesus, a call replaces shame.
And in Jesus, even our deepest failures become the soil where His grace bears fruit.

When morning broke upon the Galilee,
The waves recalled the tears of Peter’s fall;
Yet through the mist, Love’s patient eyes did see
A heart still called though broken by recall.
Three times the question burned—“Do you love Me?”—
Three times the trembling answer met the flame;
Each word of grace “un-spoke” his misery,
Till silence bowed beneath redemption’s name.
Now by that fire our hearts are kindled too,
Restored to serve the Lamb whose mercies bloom;
His voice still asks, “If love is truly true,
Then feed My flock and banish death’s dark gloom.”
Love’s three-fold light will never cease to shine—
Our loss transformed by His forgiving line.
Ned Holderby 3rd Sunday in Eastertide April 19, 2026

04/24/2026

St. Stephen’s UCC April 26, 2026
Living in the Care of the Good Shepherd
Psalm 23; John 10 –
We hear it at bedsides and gravesides, in weddings and confirmations, on plaques in our homes and in prayer. It is a psalm for joy and a psalm for sorrow, a psalm for beginnings and endings. On this Fourth Sunday of Easter, when the Church around the world hears of the risen Christ as our Good Shepherd from John 10, we are invited to hear Psalm 23 not merely as quaint poetry, but as a living promise fulfilled in Jesus.
Psalm 23 is more than something to recite; it is a voice to follow. For those in green pastures today, give thanks and use your strength to care for more vulnerable sheep. For those in the valley today, take comfort: you are not abandoned; the Shepherd is with you. For those who feel pursued by regret or fear, remember that a stronger pursuit is underway: goodness and mercy are on your heels.
In this Easter season, may we live as people who can truly say:
“The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.”
Sonnet on Psalm 23
You lead us, Lord, through pasture, stream, and shade,
A quiet strength beneath our restless fear;
In whispered winds your gentle call is made,
And weary hearts find home because you’re near.
You walk the valley where our shadows crowd,
You share the darkness we would face alone;
Your rod and staff drive back the threats that shroud,
Your wounded hands still claim us as your own.
You spread a table where our foes can see
That grace is stronger than the grave’s demand;
Our cup runs over with your victory,
Anointed, we arise at your command.
Till goodness, mercy, all our days pursue,
We dwell in Easter light, at rest in you.
Ned Holderby 4th Eastertide GoodShephardSunday

04/24/2026

From Innocence to Open Wound: A Christian Response in the Way of Love

Primary texts: Matthew 5:43–48; Romans 12:9–21; Ephesians 2:13–14
Supporting texts: Lamentations 3:22–24; Jeremiah 6:14; Romans 3:23; Micah 6:8; Psalm 122:6

I suggest that there are times when a pastor must speak not because every answer is plain, but because silence itself begins to form the soul. The present anguish surrounding Israel and the Palestinians is one of those times. It is emotionally charged, politically manipulated, morally painful, and spiritually exhausting. Yet followers of Jesus Christ are not permitted either the luxury of indifference or the indulgence of hatred. We are called to a more difficult path: to see clearly, to speak truthfully, and to love faithfully.
A helpful companion in thinking about this difficult matter is Amos Elon’s The Israelis: Founders and Sons, recently loaned to me. In his chapter “Innocents at Home,” Elon describes the founding generation of Israel as people of enormous seriousness, sacrifice, and vision, yet also as people who did not fully see the Arab population already in the land and did not adequately reckon with Arab national aspirations.
In “An Open Wound,” he turns to the later generation living inside the consequences of that conflict and names the Arab–Israeli struggle as a continuing wound in the life of the nation. Amos Elon is candid about Palestinian suffering, but he also refuses the easy moral stance of assigning all guilt to Israel alone; he insists the tragedy is deeper, more tangled, and more dangerous than one-sided accusation can express.
This pairing gives us a sober lens for Christian reflection. The chapter, “Innocents at Home,” shows what happens when a people see some truths vividly and others dimly. The chapter, “An Open Wound,” shows what happens when realities once minimized or deferred come back as pain, fear, anger, and permanent crisis. One chapter is about moral earnestness mixed with blindness. The other is about inheritance: children living in the unresolved consequences of their fathers’ decisions.
This is not only a book about Israel. It is a book about the human condition.
How often do people do something partly noble and partly blind? How often do communities act out of real fear and real hope and still fail to reckon with the neighbor standing right before them? How often does the next generation inherit not only blessings but wounds? Scripture knows these patterns well.
The Bible is never sentimental about nations, and it is never simplistic about sin. The apostle Paul says in Romans, “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” That does not erase distinctions. It does not flatten all actions into sameness. But it does remind us that no people, no movement, no government, no ideology stands before God clothed in untroubled innocence. The founders of Israel were not monsters. Neither were they free from blindness. Palestinian suffering is real. So too is Jewish suffering, Jewish memory, and Jewish fear. Arab rejectionism and violence are real. So too are the injustices endured by Palestinians across generations.
And because these things are all true at once, Christians must resist the temptation to tell the story in a way that makes one side pure and the other demonic. That temptation is strong, because moral simplicity is comforting. It allows us to feel righteous quickly. But moral simplicity is often a form of falsehood.
Jeremiah condemned those who said, “Peace, peace,” when there was no peace, and he condemned those who healed the wounds of the people lightly. There are false healings that come from denial. There are false healings that come from propaganda. There are false healings that come from choosing a villain and refusing all remaining complexity. Amos Elon helps us here. He does not say that Israel must accept unilateral blame or endure endless punishment in order to prove moral worth. That is an important position in a moment when some political and even religious speech has become so reflexively anti-Israel that it stops being a cry for justice and begins sounding like selective indignation. Christians should beware of every moral framework that assigns to Jews, or to Israel alone, a unique burden of guilt while ignoring the repeated refusals of peace, the reality of terrorism, and the existential vulnerability that has marked Jewish life for generations.
To impose solitary blame where history itself is shared and tragic is not justice. It is distortion. But we must also beware of the equal and opposite error. Christian love does not mean excusing cruelty, denying Palestinian grief, or baptizing every policy of the modern State of Israel. Christian love is not tribal loyalty. Christian love is not sentimentality. Christian love does not require blindness. In fact, because Christian love rejoices in the truth, it demands that we tell the truth about suffering wherever suffering is found. So what does it mean for followers of Jesus Christ to respond within the framework of Christian love?
First, Christian love begins with truthful seeing. Jesus teaches us to remove the log from our own eye before attempting to remove the speck from another’s. That command is personal, but it also has a communal application. I suggest that we should ask: where have we repeated slogans instead of seeking understanding? Where have we consumed images and commentaries that inflame outrage but do not cultivate wisdom? Where have we spoken as though a centuries-long conflict can be explained by a single sentence or a single accusation? Truthful seeing means refusing caricatures. Israelis are not all the same. Palestinians are not all the same. Jews are not reducible to a government. Palestinians are not reducible to Hamas. To love our neighbor truthfully means to refuse lazy moral shorthand. It means to see persons where ideologies tempt us to see abstractions.
Second, Christian love requires fair judgment. The prophet Micah tells us what the Lord requires: to do justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with God. Justice without humility becomes arrogance. Humility without justice becomes cowardice. Kindness without truth becomes indulgence. The Christian calling holds all three together. Fair judgment means we condemn the murder of civilians whoever commits it. We grieve hostage-taking whoever practices it. We reject antisemitism in old forms and new ones. We reject contempt for Arabs and Palestinians in every form. We do not ask one people alone to confess while the other is excused from moral scrutiny. Nor do we pretend all acts are equivalent. Christian judgment is not partisan; it is moral.
Third, Christian love takes seriously the command to love enemies. Our Lord says, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you.” That text is not decorative. It is not there for peacetime only. It is addressed precisely to the moments in which anger feels justified and love feels impossible. If Christians speak about Israel and Palestine without prayer for both peoples, then we are not yet thinking as Christians.
To love enemies does not mean to approve evil. It does not mean abandoning self-defense. It does not mean refusing to name wickedness. It means that even when we must condemn, we do not surrender the conviction that those on the other side remain human beings made in the image of God. It means that we pray not only for the safety of those we instinctively identify with, but also for the repentance, protection, and restoration of those we have learned to fear or resent.
Fourth, Christian love calls us to reject inherited hatreds.
One of the most haunting aspects of Elon’s contrast between “Innocents at Home” and “An Open Wound” is generational. What one generation failed to face becomes the wound of the next.
The children inherit fear, grievance, memory, rage, and defensiveness. We know this pattern from Scripture and from ordinary life. Families do it. Churches do it. Nations do it. The sins of one generation become the atmosphere of the next. But in Jesus Christ, inherited hostilities are not absolute. Paul writes in Ephesians that Christ “is our peace,” and that in his flesh he has broken down the dividing wall of hostility. That text does not erase history. It does not solve geopolitics. But it does announce a miracle stronger than inherited enmity.
In Christ, identities that seemed permanently opposed may yet be gathered before the throne of grace. This means the church must never mirror the world’s appetite for totalizing hatred. When public rhetoric trains us to despise whole peoples, the church must answer with a different voice. Not a vague voice. Not a cowardly voice. A holy voice. A voice that names evil, honors suffering, and still refuses to deny the image of God in those across the line.
Fifth, Christian love is sustained by lament. Some wounds cannot be addressed honestly without lament. For your consideration, lament is not weakness. Lament is what love sounds like when it will not lie. Lament says: this should not be. Lament says: children should not die. Lament says: hostages should not be taken. Lament says: fear should not define a people forever. Lament says: there must be a better way, even if we do not yet see it. I believe the church should be a place where such lament is voiced before God without collapsing into despair.
The book of Lamentations gives us language for grief without surrendering covenant hope. “The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; his mercies never come to an end.” That is not denial. It is faith spoken through tears. So then, what should we do?
We should pray for the peace of Jerusalem, and we should pray as well for peace in Gaza, the West Bank, and across the region. We should pray for Jewish people who live with the memory of exile, massacre, and annihilation. We should pray for Palestinian families living with displacement, fear, humiliation, and grief. We should pray for leaders to possess wisdom, restraint, and courage. We should pray for the defeat of those who profit from hatred. We should pray for the protection of the innocent. We should pray for the repentance of the violent. We should discipline our speech. Before repeating a slogan, we should ask whether it tells the truth. Before sharing a claim, we should ask whether it honors human dignity. Before speaking with certainty, we should ask whether we have listened long enough to speak justly. We should remember, too, that Christians stand in a particular relation to the Jewish people. Paul says in Romans 9 that to Israel belong the covenants, the law, the worship, the promises, and from them according to the flesh comes the Messiah. Therefore, Christians may never traffic in antisemitic habits of thought, whether old theological contempt or new political contempt clothed in moral language. The church has too often sinned here. Repentance requires vigilance.
And yet because we belong to Jesus Christ, our solidarity cannot be tribal. It cannot stop with one people only. The crucified Lord stretches out his arms wider than our camps, wider than our parties, wider than our grievances. At the cross, the Son of God bears human sin without endorsing it, suffers violence without sanctifying it, and opens a way for mercy without calling evil good. That is the pattern Christians must follow.
If Amos Elon’s chapters help us name the movement from innocence to wound, the gospel gives us the deeper word: wounds need not have the final claim. Not every political conflict will be healed in history. Not every injury will be repaired before the Lord returns. But Christians refuse the lie that hatred is inevitable or that truth and love must be separated.
So let the church be a people who see clearly. Let the church be a people who judge fairly. Let the church be a people who refuse one-sided blame and refuse one-sided compassion. Let the church be a people who pray for Jews and for Palestinians. Let the church be a people who love enemies because we were loved while we were yet enemies of God. And let the church be a people who bear witness that Jesus Christ, and not rage, and not ideology, and not vengeance, is our peace. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.

03/16/2026

We are an Outreach Church
We define ourselves as an Outreach church. That is, we serve in multiple ways those around us less fortunate. We believe justice is paramount in people's lives these days and assisting those less fortunate with practical donations of everyday needs is one method of promoting justice.

03/16/2026

Our Ministry
Our ministry is based upon the following guiding definitions of Mission, Vision, and Core Value:
Mission: Proclaim the Gospel, make disciples, serve the world [members, attendees, community] by extending God's kingdom on earth.
Vision: Love God, love others as ourselves [as directed by Jesus Christ]
Core Value: Christ Crucified
These definitions are the summary of our ministry at St. Stephen's UCC, our motivation for leading people in spiritual growth, and guiding people, by faith, to accept God's acceptance of them as the are, not as they should be, for non of us can be as we should be.

03/16/2026

St. Stephen’s UCC Rose Sunday March 15, 2026

Rose Sunday, traditionally called Laetare Sunday, is the fourth Sunday in Lent – a gentle brightening in the middle of a penitential season. Its name comes from the Latin “laetere,” meaning “rejoice,” and churches have long marked it with rose-colored vestments to signal joy breaking into the somber tones of repentance. On this day, the church remembers that God’s call to turn back to him is rooted not in grim duty but in overflowing grace: the Father who runs to meet the returning child in Jesus’ parable, the Shepherd who rejoices over the found sheep, the God whose mercy is always deeper than our sin. Rose Sunday reminds us that even our fasting and self-examination rest on a foundation of love already given, a welcome already prepared, and a fest already set.
For us today, I suggest that Rose Sunday is an invitation to hold together honestly about our brokenness and confidence in God’s joy over us. In anxious and weary times like these, we can easily imagine God as only disappointed or demanding, but this Rose Sunday insists that the heart of our faith is good news: The Father delights to restore, the Son bears our burdens, and the Spirit sings hope over us. It calls us to “rejoice in the Lord always” not because life is easy, but because grace is real, present, and at work even in the middle of our own unfinished stories. In a world like this that often knows only either denial or despair, Rose Sunday teaches us a third way: clear-eyed repentance wrapped in resurrection-colored joy.
On the fourth step of the Lenten road,
a softer hue begins to rise,
a candle blushes into gold,
and joy looks out through tear-washed eyes.
The fast is not a loveless law,
nor is the ash our final name;
the Father runs with open arms,
and light a feast amidst our shame.
So pause and taste the rosy grace,
A mid-way bloom on barren ground;
for even here, before the cross,
the music of new life is found.
Ned Holderby March 15, 2026

In the love of Christ,
Ned

02/13/2026

Simply a group of beautiful images that show God's presence and our exceeding comfort and joy in that presence in our lives. No particular order to the reel as the content items speak both together and individually,

02/13/2026
08/17/2024

This is not an excuse, or apology; it is a statement of fact: We are flawed: we make mistakes, we fall short of the mark, we are hypocrites and all of the bad things that make us fully human, just like most others. We try not to pretend to be perfect, or "above" others on this beat-up old planet.
We have lots to learn from others and ourselves as well. Being a small place, we are able to get to know one another and be friends.
Our church is here. We place ourselves in the continuity of flawed human attempts at following the Way, in spite of ourselves.
We are joyful, we are sad and everything in between. We are sure, we are doubtful and everything in between. We love, we hate and everything in between. We are human...

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St. Stephen's UCC 8520 Tonawanda Creek Road
East Amherst, NY
14051

Opening Hours

Tuesday 8:30am - 3:15pm
Thursday 1:15pm - 3:30am
Sunday 8:30am - 11:15am

Telephone

+17167413481

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