05/19/2026
I read something the other day (The Bible) and it got me to thinking 🤔.
Eve’s curse was to have pain in childbirth, but still desire her husband after all those shenanigans and he’d rule over her. ADAM’s curse was to have to till the earth and struggle and sweat to grow food to provide for his wife and self. (Genesis 3:16-19)
Fast forward to today…
Women are all in, carrying the full brunt of that curse. But MEN are steady asking women to bear 50% of theirs… you know, that man who says he wants a traditional wife but ALSO wants her to contribute 50% (or more) of income, 50% of household expenses, 100% of child rearing and care and be 100% caretaker of him too?? That’s what I’d call a curse enhancer not curse breaker!
First of all, Jesus died to break the curse. So sir, don’t come telling me it’s my duty to submit to you when you haven’t submitted your raggedy theology to Christ, let less your eternal soul. Submit? Yeah okay.
Secondly, I will be doggone if Jesus broke me from the curse to then willingly submit to carrying half of yours.
Finally, “What are you bringing to the table?” will be firmly answered with “As soon as you build/show the established table and give me the means to dress it, I’ll let you know.”
Ladies, don’t let a man come quoting scripture to manipulate you into bearing half of his curse. You don’t have to carry yours and his too! The right man has been freed from his curse, is walking in abundance and gonna make sure you land in your “soft life/daughter of the King” phase.
Listen, when you read the Word with understanding AND the help of Holy Spirit, it becomes real life HELP and wisdom.
I’m just saying.