08/02/2026
I’ve been sitting with this for a few days.
Proverbs 31:26 has always resonated with me. In fact, it’s one of my favorite verses from Proverbs 31. But over the past few days, four words settled in my heart differently:
”…the law of kindness.”
I’ve read this verse many times, but this time I couldn’t move past those words.
Kindness isn’t presented as a personality trait. It’s presented as a law—a governing principle.
Before words leave our mouths, they pass through the law of kindness.
It made me pause and ask myself:
• Is what I’m about to say true?
• Is it necessary?
• Is it beneficial?
• Is it kind?
Not weak.
Not passive.
Not people-pleasing.
Just governed.
As I continued studying, I looked up the Hebrew word translated “kindness” in Strong’s Concordance (H2617, hesed). The word carries the beautiful ideas of kindness, goodness, mercy, and lovingkindness.
What especially captured my heart was the Brown-Driver-Briggs Hebrew Lexicon, which, in the context of Proverbs 31:26, describes it as “instruction in kindness” or “kindly instruction.”
That stopped me.
This verse isn’t simply saying she’s a kind person. It’s saying that even her instruction—her teaching, her counsel, and her correction—is governed by kindness.
Truth still speaks.
Wisdom still corrects.
Love still sets boundaries.
But when kindness governs our tongue, even difficult words can become instruments of grace instead of weapons.
Today, my prayer is simple:
Lord, let the law of kindness govern my tongue.
“She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness.” — Proverbs 31:26 (NKJV)🤍