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By the waters By the Waters is my personal ministry: spiritual blog, retreats, spiritual direction and supervising students in spiritual direction. Pat Adams

I have written two books, Thy Kingdom Com and Exodus: Our Story, too. My focus: deepening our lives in Christ.

If you've missed my new blog on Substack, "The Creation Is Our Story, Too," from now on, I will be posting it here every...
02/11/2026

If you've missed my new blog on Substack, "The Creation Is Our Story, Too," from now on, I will be posting it here every Monday. If you want to read the previous posts about how the plants and animals and humans support the planet Earth, you can read them on Substack https://substack.com/. I started posting this blog in October 2025. Pat Adams

I am a spiritual director, blogger , and author about living the life in Christ.

The Nature of Our GodPat AdamsFeb 9 READ IN APP When I think of God these days, I am drawn to what He designed for this ...
02/11/2026

The Nature of Our God
Pat Adams
Feb 9



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When I think of God these days, I am drawn to what He designed for this planet Earth. I see a completely interdependent system of life on this Earth in which every single plant, animal, insect, and person is needed to sustain life on this planet. Each and every one of us, including humans, has a purpose on which the planet and all its inhabitants depend. I am awed when I think of how God who I think of more as this enormous heart and mind, not the huge male figure in the sky that I was taught to think of as God when I was a child. I am awed at how this planet was created to serve every single plant and animal here which makes the planet a community, a viable community in which all of life depends on every other plant or animal here. And I can’t even imagine what life beyond this planet, beyond this solar system is like. But I do believe that God created every bit of the universe, again, each as part of a self-sustaining community.

Science has taught us much about God and all other life forms here; it has supplied the details while Genesis 1 only named the big picture of heavens and earth, light and darkness, sky and the waters, evening and morning, seas and land, vegetation, creatures of the water and birds, and every living thing including animals and humans. Without science today we would not know how wonderfully made it all is and how interconnected all of life is according to God’s plan of this amazing community on Earth of plants, animals, insects and humans—all the living things form a community here because each species has a purpose that provides food and care for every other species. It is this interdependent community that God created. Not one species can exist without all the others. We must face the destruction of species by Global Warming and change the nature of how we humans relate to this grand plan. We must make decisions about our Earth that will support all species here, including ours.

It is interesting that among all the inhabitants on earth only humans have free will and have to choose to exercise their purpose on this planet that helps the community that God created, as they serve God in all that they do. I am reading a most interesting book. Called The Language of God: A Scientist Presents Evidence for Belief by Francis S. Collins who was the head of the Human Genome Project. He has a great faith in God. He wrote the book “to make his case for God and for science.”[1]

In the church I grew up in in Louisville, Kentucky, God was an angry and vengeful God, ready to zap any of us who did any wrong. I absorbed this lesson as a child but it gave me lots of problems as I grew up. Bu the time I was a teenager, God to me was a raven sitting on my shoulder ready to zap me for anything I did wrong. In my later 20’s I left the church because I could not tolerate the hell-fire-and-damnation message about God even if I no longer believed it. Or heard it every Sunday. Later, God called me to serve Him and I gave my life to the Lord. I wish I had read this passage from Micah 6:8 in my 20’s

“ He has shown you, O mortal, what is good.
And what does the Lord require of you?
‘To act justly and to love mercy
and to walk humbly[a] with your God.”

That is really such a lovely invitation to serve God. And then, in the next chapter, Micah describes God without the “hell-fire and damnation” lesson of my childhood:

“Who is a God like you,
who pardons sin and forgives the transgression
of the remnant of his inheritance?
You do not stay angry forever
but delight to show mercy.
You will again have compassion on us;
you will tread our sins underfoot
and hurl all our iniquities into the depths of the sea.
You will be faithful to Jacob,
and show love to Abraham,
as you pledged on oath to our ancestors
in days long ago.”(Micah 7:18-20)

One of the best ways to connect to God is as the creator of this magnificent planet, the beauty which surrounds us, the fascinating variety of plants and animals and insects and humans which we see every day. To me there is great joy in observing the clouds, in feeding our neighborhood’s birds outside my living room window, in seeing the glory of the trees in the four seasons. Like right now, I am captivated by the structure of the tree trunks and limbs which are bare of leaves. The trees stand so straight or they lean at difficult angles to sustain, and yet they are not falling over! And this description doesn’t even begin to cover all the beauty of this earth!

If we love this earthly home of ours, then we must love God, too. We must give up our preoccupation with ourselves and focus on the needs of the earth and all its residents near and far. We need to live in gratitude for all that God has given us and how he helps us throughout our lives, even when we are not aware of his presence and his caring. There is a huge wake-up call today for us humans in the face of the Global Warming that is making it so hard to live on this planet as fires, floods, rising seas and temperatures, and other disasters these days occur often across the world. If we live in gratitude for all God has done for us or even for small parts of our lives, then we must turn to God and ask what it is that He wants each of us to do to help turn the temperatures and disasters around. If we fail to seek His advice, we will fail to change the circumstances on this our home. Scientist are predicting that 2050 is the turning point after which it will be difficult to turn this huge problem around.[2] That’s only 24 years from now!

If we care about the rest of our lives, our children and their children, all of humanity and creation, and our God who created this wonderful home for us, NOW IS THE TIME TO ACT!

An incredible book to read: “The Language of God,” by Francis S. Collins who describes his own relationship to God and how it came about, the fascinating history of the human genome project, and how faith and science are compatible. It was in finishing this book that I realized that science is really describing the details of God’s creation for us, so that we can really understand what He has created for us!

[1] Francis S. Collins’ “The Language of God,” (New York,NY: Free Press, a division of Simon & Schuster, 2006), Back Cover

[2]

The seventh edition of the Global Environment Outlook (GEO-7) offers a stark vision of the decades to come. But its authors say the worst forecasts can still be avoided if countries quickly take meaningful steps to address environmental degradation.

03/26/2025

What if we Americans shed the ‘Enlightenment lens’ that was handed down to us from the early settlers here through which we see the world and our lives?

These lenses only celebrated the mind as the supreme human characteristic and left out the heart, the soul, and the body and all that it offers us,. Without celebrating the mind as better than the rest of us, we could bring all of ourselves to bear on every problem and decision that arose. We could be fully present to whatever was happening, to the people we are with, even to our whole selves, and to God Himself. And we would be able to see the truth of what God wants for us human beings. How enriched our lives would be if we could be our full selves, taking in the wisdom of each major part of us and learning to love and value it all after we’ve released our dependence on the mind alone. We could move from judgment to love, from distractions to being present, from the love of God to loving ourselves and others, and so much more.

How often have I been in a conversation with someone, and at the same time, thinking about whatever is next on my agenda for the day. I am not present to that person. I am not allowing my heart to respond to them, I’m not listening to the vibes that my body is picking up from them. I am not aware of God’s reason for me being with this person for his or her good and for mine. I am only thinking about me and my needs, and little about them.
What did I miss? I missed being in community with this person. I missed being interested in what was going on with them and sharing with them how I was nudged by God to respond. My heart was dead to me. My soul was unaware of God. And my body couldn’t get my attention. Maybe 10-20% of me actually was with this person. And it was not the part of me that really cared about them, regardless of whether this was my spouse, my best friend, or anyone else.

As a culture, we are so mind-based that we aren’t really a part of the community of man that God created on this Earth. That takes all of us to reach out in belonging to each other. And yet I think that the main lesson of Covid and now Global Warming is that these two horrors have happened to everyone on this earth regardless of where they live and that we are being called by God to come together as people and as nations so that we can overcome these threats together as soon as possible.
We aren’t really a community of citizens here in the United States. Because we live in the mind so totally and we depend on material things to make us happy. We judge people that are not like the white people who basically run things here. We are not good at supporting people who live on the margins. We judge that to be socialism. We denigrate a large part of our citizenry who were the backbone of our economy for centuries, who built our wealth and did the dirty/hard work of our economy for us—African Americans whose ancestors were slaves here and working in horrible circumstances, Latinos who mostly worked in the agriculture business for low wages, Asians who built the inter-continental railroad for those same low wages, and then the Native Americans who greeted us when we came, but then we worked very hard at educating their children to be like us.



There is so much we can learn from each of these groups. But first we must learn to appreciate their contributions to the success of the United States which cost us little; they brought us the power and capital that we wanted. Each of these groups who are citizens but still not equals brought us lessons we could have learned about living in the present moment and in the presence of God. Think of the African culture these Black slaves brought with them—it’s the totality of their commitment that they could show us, say in worship, how they are present in heart, mind, soul and body to the message, the music, to each other and to God.

Then there are the Latinos who are so heart based. The Mexicans celebrate their saints across the country with huge celebrations for “Our Lady of Guadalupe” and other local ones. The parades and carnivals are free to all. Often their homes have beautiful altars celebrating their mother Mary, Jesus their brother, and God their father.

The Asians brought us the ability to be silent before God in meditation which draws us into His presence and a much closer relationship to Him, more mindful (that is present), more heartfelt, more bodily present.—more totally present.
As for the Native Americans, they could teach us so much about taking care of this earth in the age of Global Warming. Native tribes see the Earth as their sustainer in all ways, and in return, they take care of the Earth around them—the plants and animals.
They have so many lessons for us about Global Warming.
At this time when our whole way of living is threatened by global warming and by the present administration, more than ever before we must work together to do God’s will here and, as much as we can, abroad. It takes working in community, whether here at home or across the world, to solve the problems that affect us all. What benefit, what grace will be experience as we do God’s will in the world today? The Fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and humility—will grow in us! (Galatians 5:22-23). Then we will know that we are living in God’s will.

12/5/22  Mary sings for joy After the angel Gabriel appeared to Mary, announcing to her that she would bear a son, Jesus...
12/05/2022

12/5/22 Mary sings for joy

After the angel Gabriel appeared to Mary, announcing to her that she would bear a son, Jesus, Son of the Most High, Mary hurried off to visit her much older cousin, Elizabeth, who was now six months pregnant with John, who would precede Jesus in declaring the Good News and baptizing people. When Mary entered her home, Elizabeth felt the baby in her womb leap for joy; “Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit. In a loud voice she was exclaimed, ‘Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the child you will bear!...Blessed is she who has believed that the Lord would fulfill his promises to her!’ “ (John 1:41-45) And Mary replied,

“My soul glorifies the Lord
and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior,
for he has been mindful
of the humble state of his servant.
From now on all generations will call me blessed,
for the Mighty One has done great things for me—
holy is his name.
His mercy extends to those who fear him,
from generation to generation.
He has performed mighty deeds with his arm;
he has scattered those who are proud in their inmost thoughts.
He has brought down rulers from their thrones
but has lifted up the humble.
He has filled the hungry with good things
but has sent the rich away empty.
He has helped his servant Israel,
remembering to be merciful
to Abraham and his descendants forever,
just as he promised our ancestors.” (John 1:46-55)

Here, in Elizabeth’s home, she has heard the Holy Spirit through Elizabeth and seen the fetus of John the Baptist jump in the womb—both confirming God’s favor for her that she bears Jesus. The joy, the overwhelming joy calls forth this song in her, in her humility, in her blessed state, the Lord is doing “great things for me—holy is his name.” She is experiencing His mercy to one who is in awe of Him, as she has been taught by the generations of her family before her. She has known of his great deeds, scattering the proud and the rulers. He has fed the hungry and sent the rich away with nothing. He helped Israel, has been merciful to Abraham and all his descendants—just as He promised. So, she sings His praises in this Magnificat. There is gratitude and joy, humility and praise all for the God who keeps His promises, and will keep His promise to her, too.

Gratitude and praise to the Lord for our lives the way they have gone and the way they are, for the people who have graced our lives—family, friends and even strangers; gratitude and praise are the necessary building blocks of our lives as we follow Jesus Christ. Gratitude for the blessings and the challenges, for the glory of the Lord and how merciful and kind He is to those who love Him, but also for how He invites every one of the people on this Earth to come to Him, to repent and to turn their lives around according to His teachings. All His promises do come true, although probably not as we in our world-filled minds envision them. Mary could have been totally embarrassed by what God was asking of her, because she was not yet married; instead she is filled with joy and acceptance of this great gift. She could have rejected this gift to her, yet she totally embraced it.

Praise for who our Creator is and the universe, the planet He created that houses us, the interdependent system that supports every plant and creature that lives on this Earth. And that is just the beginning. Then there is the love and forgiveness and support and mercy and justice that He offers us all. How can we not praise Him?

Advent is all about Jesus coming, but metaphorically it’s about Jesus Christ today and what he is now sending into our lives right now. The story has meaning way beyond the original story. Every year we celebrate Advent and Jesus’s coming birth, but we need to also look at what the Lord is bringing into our lives now, so that we can see what God is asking of us now. Mary is our teacher for how we are to respond to God when He offers us the unthinkable, the unimaginable, the unworldly, the purpose that we have never thought of for ourselves. At first, we can be overwhelmed, but then, like Mary, we are to say, “I am the Lord’s servant. May your word to me be fulfilled (Luke 1:38). And then, we let the Lord show us the way.

Questions to ponder over the week: Am I filled with gratitude and praise as Mary is? Or do I reject God’s gifts to me and forget to praise and thank Him for all He does in my life? What would I have to give up in myself in order to grant God the place in my life that He is asking me for? Am I self- or ego-centered? Am I too much in the world to see the value of His ways? What does stand between me and God?

Blessing for this week: May we be the people of God who give thanks and praise to God for everything He has done for me, for the blessings and the challenges, for the grace and the pain.

See more blog posts and offerings at patsaidadams.com.

Check out my other website, deepeningyourfaith.com for information about spiritual practices and more writings about the spiritual life. New posts every month. 9.19.22’s is entitled “Digging Deeper into Our Resistance.” Sign up to receive these as monthly emails at the website.

Two Announcements
1. I am giving away a 10-week journaling guide to Jesus’s Two Great Commandments. If you are interested, email me at [email protected] and I will email it to you, free of charge.
2. My latest books, “Called to Help the Poor and Needy” and “A Study Guide to the Beatitudes and the Sermon on the Mount” are now in bookstores and on line. The first is about the more than 2,000 verses in the Bible which detail God’s instructions for caring for those in need. The second is a journaling/pondering guide to Jesus’s most complete sermon.

11/14/2022

11.14.22 Living into Christ's Humility

By the Waters is a weekly blog written about how we live the Life of the Spirit, a life devoted to God. It is not about theology; I know that my readers probably would not agree on the details of their beliefs. It is about what a spirit-filled life looks like in the 21st century. […]

11/07/2022

11.7.22 Stewardship vs. Dominion

When God created this universe and our home planet Earth, He gave man dominion over it [Genesis 1:26-28]. That is the translation of both the KJV and RSV versions. The NIV and The Message give a slightly different slant: NIV translates it “may rule over” and the Message says “be responsible for.” God gave man the responsibility for the Earth and all its creatures and plants. We have not taken this responsibility seriously. In our rush to profit from the earth’s resources, we have left behind poisoned, uninhabitable lands, and impoverished populations. Some humans have taken what they’ve wanted and left the local populations to deal with—as best they can—the ruined land. We took dominion to be a carte blanch: we can do whatever we want and forget the consequences of our actions. We have not taken our responsibility seriously, so that we could profit from it.

Tuesday
It is so different with the native peoples of this earth. They have lived in reciprocity with the land and all its resources and its plants and animals. They have worked to give back to the plants and animals that sustain them what they have given to the native peoples. They have taken care of their resources. They have practiced stewardship, not dominion.

By ignoring the wisdom of the native peoples of this land whose land we usurped, we are now reaping what we so successfully sowed: global warming which seemed like a far-off result of our total dependence on fossil fuels and their damage to the whole earth has shown its face so well in this past year with the fires, the floods, the fiercer storms, and the rising seas and temperatures. There are many verses in the Bible about reaping and sowing, but here is one on stewardship from Galatians 6:8: “For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.”

Wednesday
Here is Jesus with another teaching about stewardship: Jesus’s Parable of the Bags of Gold [Matthew 25:14-29]. A man was going on a journey and entrusted his wealth to his servants. To one he gave five bags of gold, to another two bags and, to the last servant, one bag. When the man returned, he found that the one with five bags gained five more. The man with two bags had gained two more bags of gold. But the one given one bag had been afraid of his master, so he buried his bag of gold in the ground.

The man congratulated the first two servants, giving them even more responsibility. But the one who had hidden his bag of gold received only his master’s anger: “You wicked lazy servant!... you should have put my money on deposit with the bankers, so that when I returned I would have received it back with interest.” We are responsible for what God has given us. May we work to increase it. That is stewardship, being responsible for what God gives us, being faithful to what God asks of us, multiplying the benefits for everyone, not hoarding it for ourselves.

Thursday
Perhaps Titus 1:7 puts it most succinctly: “For an overseer, as God’s steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain.” To oversee this earth and all that we have been given means to take care of the earth as best we can, to not use it for our own gain, but for the gain of all the inhabitants—all the plants and animals and people who live here and who are to benefit from our stewardship. Reciprocity with God, with all that we have been given that feeds and nourishes us is the name of the game. We are beholden to God for all that He has created to sustain us and all other inhabitants of this earth, and so we take good care of it—our family, our neighbors, our purpose-- all because we love our Lord and our Creator. And we love all that He has created, too.

Questions to ponder over the week: Am I good steward of what the Lord has giving me—my family, my work, my purpose, and all my neighbors? What does being a steward of all that God has entrusted to me mean to me? How could I improve my participation in all His creation?

Blessing for the week: May we be good stewards of all that God has entrusted to us. May we share all that we are with everyone and with the earth.

See more blog posts and offerings at patsaidadams.com.

Check out my other website, deepeningyourfaith.com for information about spiritual practices and more writings about the spiritual life. New posts every month. 9.19.22’s is entitled “Digging Deeper into Our Resistance.” Sign up to receive these as monthly emails at the website.

Two Announcements
1. I am giving away a 10-week journaling guide to Jesus’s Two Great Commandments. If you are interested, email me at [email protected] and I will send it to you, free of charge.
2. My latest books, “Called to Help the Poor and Needy” and “A Study Guide to the Beatitudes and the Sermon on the Mount” are now in bookstores and on line. The first is about the more than 2,000 verses in the Bible which detail God’s instructions for caring for those in need. The second is a journaling/pondering guide to Jesus’s most complete sermon.

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10/17/2022

10.17.22 The Love We Share
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