10/01/2026
Wives, Types and Remedies
The last time I wrote an article on types of women a great read if you can get a hold of that article, I will put the link in the comment.
This article is about behavioral patterns of wives and how the world view and tag wives accordingly. The names are my style just face the character and learn from it.
She is a bad wife; she does not cook clean spends more time with her friends other than her home, does not look after or monitor the children, care less or does not manage or pay attention to her man she prefers enjoying life out there in the clubs with singles. She cannot manage money she spends frivolously. She cheats on her spouse and don’t care about consequences.
Insight; check her background may be she grew up where there are cooks and house helps or servants that took care of the above, she might not a SAVED blood washed by the lamb, may be the husband has hurt her and things have gone side ways so she decided on this lifestyle. She married for the name not necessarily to be a wife it’s for society to get off her back. She may be fighting generational battles of single life from her back ground, satan wants to destroy her and her home.
A suggested remedy; a willing heart to do better with prayerful Counseling and bringing God into this scene can make a difference in this wife’s life. The spouse love and care level must rise up high for her to feel the concern (All things are possible).
She is a quite wife; she has seen days of sorrow, abuse and misuse, under valued, unappreciated, taken for granted, cheated upon and has gone through the worse of times in the hands of her spouse now she is in a shell cocooned and cannot speak out.
Insight; she has no where to go to, she economically depends on that man, she does not have a skill or a career, she has no extended family with concern for her plight. She might or might not be blood washed saved by Jesus because saved wives suffer these too.
A suggested remedy; Counsellors/Therapist should step in prayerfully the partner should be asked few questions and he should give honest answers. 1. Do you love this woman? 2. Do you care about her? 3 why are you treating her this way? 4. Do you want to work this marriage? 5. Would you allow God into this situation? The responses will give counselors clues as to how to navigate the situation.
She LOOKS like a quite wife; she has endured all of the above and is planning a dangerous move, to kill him (yes!) to leave him, to start a life of peace and quite, she is looking for a financial anchor, she is plotting her way out of her predicament.
A suggested remedy; Prayerful step in from counsellors or trained Therapist or concerned inner circle friends or family members who truly care. From the partner if there is still interest a turn around in attitude towards her, a massive step up in love and care. He must answer some questions so that helpers can know the why of his behavior, his background must be checked may be he grew up seeing his father do all this to his mum and did not decide better but copied and pasted the same for his own family and is badly affecting him.
She is the “AM OK” wife; she has accepted his flaws, his cheating and abuse, she has adjusted to his gaslighting and narcissistic behaviors and treats her like a dump site she does not complain BECAUSE she wants his money, he gives her money to keep her quite in this hell, she does not mind, he pays the bills and household domestic expenses and buy her gifts from time to time she does not mind living in hell because of the MONEY and MATERIAL benefits.
Insights; She has lost her value and respect for her self she needs an overhaul out of materialistic delusion. She needs true friends to help her see her realities because she only sees MONEY! She is putting her life and peace at risk because of his MONEY.
Remedies; prayerful digging into her past there MUST be either heavy poverty so she is accepting anything not to go back there or she is coming from a wealthy background and could not stand to be without therefore she is accepting all sorts for the money! With this understanding counsellors can navigate with questions as to what a good life looks like. The blessing of God makes rich and adds no sorrow to it.
She is “the Distant wife”; this is not being in another country relationship NO It’s a type of wife who has being tired of seeing no positive change she has decided to put boundaries for herself and protect her peace. She does nothing wifey at home she is in a place of what ever happens happens I don’t care. She has seen enough. Her heart is out she is just waiting for a green light to leave she has seen all so she is protecting herself from more hurts by distancing from his issues.
Remedies; PRAYERFULNESS first from the partner TRUE repentance, turn around and positive change restoration of first love and positive attitude is a must. Understand why she took this disposition and navigate accordingly for a better disposition to restoration. This will change if there is willingness on both sides to shift for the better.
Let me give you this free closing advice out of experience 90% of the time a woman gives you back what you give to her if you give her peace joy and love you will get it back miltiplied but if you give her WAR LIFESTYLE you will reap a REBEL WIFE. Choose you this day what you will give to your wife choose LOVE!
A sensible woman will not want to be a rebel she a will choose her peace and act wisely for her life and future even if it means to go be single.
©️By Regina Peters Moore
WPH
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