15/11/2021
* My Wife's Rights *
* _The rights and duties of husband and wife _ *
Lesson 2️⃣2️⃣
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In the same way, some rights of the husband are assigned to the wife, and some rights are jointly obligatory on both the husband and the wife.
* ⏬ _Let us mention the rights of the husband and wife over each other in the light of the Book and Sunnah.
In the rate of which the sayings of scholars will also be mentioned.
* 1 First: *
* * Only wife's special rights: *
The wife has certain financial rights over her husband, including dowry, alimony, and housing.
🎀 And some rights are non-financial, in which there is justice in the division between the wives, to live and socialize in a good and efficient manner, not to hurt the wife.
* _1⃣ Financial Rights: _ *
* 1⃣ Seal: *
The dowry is the property of the wife which is due to her husband which is proved by contract or in*******se, and it is the right of wife which is imposed on husband by Allah Almighty.
* 🌹 Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
And give the women the pleasure of their dowry.
Women (4)
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ہرMahr is not a condition of marriage contract nor is it a member of the contract according to the majority of jurists, but it is one of the effects of it which has been compiled on it. That contract of the majority of scholars will be valid.
* لیےBecause Allah Almighty says: *
There is no sin on you if you divorce women without touching them and without setting a dowry.
Al-Baqarah (236)
* So, touching the hand, that is, before entering and before setting the dowry, the absence of divorce indicates not mentioning the dowry in the marriage contract.
* * And if the name of the dowry is not mentioned in the contract, then the dowry will be obligatory on the husband, *
And if it is not mentioned in the marriage contract, then the dowry will be obligatory on the husband as well, that is, he will have to pay the same dowry as other women like him.
* 2⃣Nan and alimony: *
The consensus of Islamic scholars is that: -
Wives are obliged to provide for their husbands, but the condition is that if a woman surrenders herself to her husband, then alimony will be obligatory.
* But *
If the wife forbids or disobeys her husband, he will not be considered entitled to non-maintenance.
* * Wisdom of the obligation of alimony for the wife: *
A woman is imprisoned for her husband because of the marriage contract, and it is forbidden for her to leave her husband's house without his permission, so it is obligatory on him to spend on her in return. That is, he should give her a frugal expense, and in the same way this expense is in return for the woman surrendering herself to her husband and benefiting from it.
* * Purpose of Nanan and Almsgiving: *
* Meeting the needs of the wife such as food, drink, accommodation, etc., all these are the responsibility of the husband, even if the wife has her own property and she is also rich, then the husband is responsible for non-maintenance. *
_ * کہ Because Allah Almighty says: * _
And those who have children are responsible for the food, clothing and accommodation of these women according to the constitution.
Al-Baqarah (233)
_ * ↙️🌹 And in another place Allah Almighty said something like this: * _
And he who is generous should spend out of his generosity, and he who is in need of sustenance should spend out of what Allaah has given him.
Divorce (7).
Arguments from the Sunnah of the Prophet: *
* * Hind bint Utbah (may Allah be pleased with her) who was the wife of Abu Sufyan (may Allah be pleased with her) when she complained to the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that Abu Sufyan did not spend on her
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said to them:
Take good enough for yourself and your children.
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Abu Sufyan, the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is a very greedy and miserly man. Isn't it a sin for me to do that?
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
* _To take from his wealth in such a good way that is enough for you and your children. _ *
Sahih Bukhari Hadith Number (5049) Sahih Muslim Hadith Number (1714).
Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said on the occasion of the Farewell Sermon:
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Sahih Muslim Hadith No. 1218
* 3⃣ Residence: *
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* Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says: *
According to your ability, make them live where you live.
Divorce (6)
* _2⃣ Non-financial rights: _ *
* 1⃣ Justice between wives: *
* The wife or her husband has the right to do justice between them if they have other wives, to spend the night between them, bread and alimony, and so on.
* 2⃣ Good manners: *
* Husband is obliged to treat his wife with good manners and gentleness, and according to his extent, offer her things which are the cause of love and affection for him.
* لیےBecause Allah Almighty says: *
And be kind to them and be kind to them.
Women (19)
* ⤵️🌹 And in another place he said something like this: *
And women have the same rights as men.
Al-Baqarah (228)
* * It is in the Sunnah of the Prophet that: *
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
Accept my advice about women and be kind to them.
Sahih Bukhari Hadith No. 3153 Sahih Muslim Hadith No. 1468.
The following are some examples of the Prophet's (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) kindness to his wives, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) is our role model and ideal: *
Zainab bint Abi Salma says: Umm Salma (may Allaah be pleased with her) said: I was in the chador with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him), then my menstrual period started, so I slipped out of the chador and left. When the menstruating women put on their clothes, the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Has menstruation come?
I replied, "Yes, so the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) called me and put me in the chador with him."
She said: Umm Salma (may Allaah be pleased with her) narrated to me that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) used to kiss her while she was fasting, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and I used to do ghusl janabah together Were.
Sahih Bukhari Hadith No. (316) Sahih Muslim Hadith No. (296).
2⃣ Urwah ibn Zubayr (may Allaah be pleased with him) narrates that 'Aa'ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) said:
By Allaah, I saw the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) standing at the door of his hujra, and the Abyssinians used to play with their spears in the Prophet's Mosque, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) hid me with his cloak. Used to do so that I could watch their game, then they would stand there because of me, even if I left on my own, so what do you value a young girl who is eager to play. *
Sahih Bukhari Hadith Number (443) Sahih Muslim Hadith Number (892).
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Sahih Bukhari Hadith No. (1068).
* * Do not hurt the wife: *
* * This is also an Islamic principle, and when it is haraam to harm and hurt a stranger or another third person, then it is haraam to harm and harm his wife. *
Ibadah ibn Samit (may Allaah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
_Do not harm yourself nor harm anyone else_
Sunan Ibn Majah Hadith No. (2340): This hadith has been declared saheeh by Imam Ahmad, Imam Hakim and Ibn Salah.
See the book: Summary of Al-Badr Al-Munir (2/438).
* In this issue, the Shari'ah has warned to punish such a beating which is severe and severe.
* * Jabir (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said on the occasion of the farewell pilgrimage: *
Fear Allaah with regard to women, for you have obtained them by the command of Allaah, and have made their private parts lawful by the word of Allaah. Do not enter your house. If they do so, then punish them with death which does not injure them or cause them severe pain. give_
Sahih Muslim Hadith No. 1218.
* 2⃣Dom: *
* خا Husband's rights over wife: *
Husband's rights over wife are very important, but husband's rights are even greater than wife's rights because
* 🌹 Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala has said: *
And these women have the same rights as these men with goodness. Yes, men have status and superiority over women.
Al-Baqarah (228)
* 🌷Jasas (may Allah have mercy on him) says: *
The Almighty has stated in this verse that both husband and wife have rights over each other, and the husband has rights over the wife which are not on the wife's husband.
* * And Ibn al-Arabi says *:
This is his text that man has superiority over woman and in marriage rights he also has superiority over woman.
And some of these rights are:
* 1⃣ Obligation of obedience: *
Allaah has made man the ruler over the woman who will take care of her and guide her and command her as the rulers do to their subjects, because Allaah has given man some physical and mental characteristics. He has been blessed, and some financial matters have been made obligatory on him.
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
Men rule over women because Allah Almighty has given them superiority over each other and because men have spent their wealth.
Women (34)
Hafiz Ibn Katheer (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
Ali ibn Abi Talhah narrated from Ibn 'Abbas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that men are the rulers over women, that is, they are the rulers and rulers over them, that is, they will be obeyed according to the command of Allaah, and obedience to Him. She will be a protector of kindness and wealth for her family.
Muqatil, Sadi, and Dhahak (may Allaah have mercy on them) said the same thing. See the commentary of Ibn Katheer (1/492).
* 2⃣ Making sexual in*******se possible for husband *:
The husband has the right over the wife to benefit from the wife. When the wife gets married and she is also eligible for in*******se, then the wife is obliged to give herself to the husband on the request of the husband on the basis of marriage contract. Give up
* He should pay the dowry to her and if the woman demands, give her a respite of one or two days as usual so that she can prepare herself for the leave because it is her need and it is a very simple thing that Habit is also well known.
* * * And when the wife does not agree with the husband in in*******se, it is forbidden and she has committed a major, but if there is a shar'i excuse, she can do so, such as menstruation, or a hypothetical fast, and illness, etc. *
Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: *
* _⚫ When a man calls his wife to his bed and the wife refuses, then the husband spends the night in a state of anger against her, then the angels keep cursing her till morning __ *
Sahih Bukhari Hadith No. (3065) Sahih Muslim Hadith No. (1436).
* 3⃣ Do not allow the husband whom he dislikes to enter the house *:
* * * Husband also has a right over his wife not to let her enter her house which her husband dislikes.
ھ `` Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) narrates that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
* * It is not permissible for any woman to fast (naafil) in the presence of her husband but she can fast with his permission, *
* ⭕And no one is allowed to enter his house but if he has permission then he should enter) *
Sahih Bukhari Hadith Number (4899) Sahih Muslim Hadith Number (1026).
* * Sulaiman ibn Amr ibn Ahus narrates that my father (may Allah be pleased with him) narrated to me that he came with the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) in the farewell pilgrimage *
The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) praised Allaah and after preaching and admonishing said: `
* Treat women well and accept my advice, they are captives and captives to you, you do not own anything from them but if they do any obscene act and disobedience etc. then you separate them from the beds, *
And punish them with death, but do not strike them severely. If they obey you, do not seek a way against them.
* ہYou have rights over your women and your women have rights over you too, *
`` `Do not let the one whom you dislike enter your house nor allow the one whom you dislike, knowing that you have a right to be kind to them and to give them food and shelter. Two ways `
* * Sunan Tirmidhi Hadith Number: 1163 Sunan Ibn Majah Hadith Number: 1851 Imam Tirmidhi (may Allah have mercy on him) has declared it to be Hasan Sahih. *
Jabir (may Allaah be pleased with him) narrated that the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:
* ❄ Fear Allaah with regard to women, for you have obtained them by the command of Allaah, and made their private parts lawful by the word of Allaah. *
حق `` It is your duty to them that whoever you dislike should not enter your house. But it is right that you give them bread and sustenance in a good and efficient manner
* Sahih Muslim Hadith Number: 1218 *
* 🚫D - Leaving home without husband's permission: *
The husband has the right over the wife not to leave the house without the permission of the husband.
* 🎙Shafiya and Hanbala say: *
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* Hmmm - Discipline: Husband should: - *
When he disobeys his wife, he should teach her literature in a good and virtuous manner and not with any evil, because Allah Almighty has commanded women to teach literature by punishing them for separation and light beating in case of disobedience. ۔
* * Hanafi scholars have declared it permissible to punish a woman by beating her on four occasions which are as follows: *
* 🎗1- When the husband wants that: - *
Make the wife beautiful and let the wife abandon him.
* 🎗2- When the wife is in a state of purity *
And if the husband calls her for intimacy, the wife refuses.
* 🎗3- Do not offer prayers. *
* 🎗4- Leaving home without husband's permission. *
* * Arguments on the legitimacy of the discipline: *
Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
عورت `` And admonish the women whose disobedience and wickedness you fear, and leave them in separate beds, and punish them with death.
* Women: 34 *
* 🔥And in another place Allah Almighty says something like this: *
ایمان `` O you who believe! Save yourselves and your families from the fire whose fuel is men and stones
* Prohibition: 6 *
* 💫Qatadah (may Allaah have mercy on him) says: *
حکم `` Command them to obey Allaah, and forbid disobedience and disobedience to Allaah, and impose on them the commands of Allaah, command them, and help them to do it. And when you see them disobeying Allah, stop them and rebuke them.
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`` `` A Muslim has the right to teach his close relatives, family members, and his slaves and handmaids the duties of God Almighty, and to teach them what God has forbidden.
* See Tafseer Ibn Katheer: 4/392 *
* 💞And - Wife serving her husband: *
There are many arguments for this, some of which have been mentioned above.
Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
`` `It is obligatory on the wife to serve her husband in a good and benevolent manner like each other, and this service is according to different circumstances, so the service of a rural woman is not like that of a woman living in the city, and so on. The service of a strong woman cannot be like that of a weak and feeble woman
* See Fatawa Al-Kubra: 4/561 *
* AZ - A woman surrendering herself to her husband: *
When the marriage contract is complete and valid with the correct conditions, then it is obligatory on the woman to:
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`` Which is in the form of usury and profit, and in the same way the woman is also entitled to the compensation which is given in the form of dowry.
* Ah - wife's kindness to her husband: *
The proof of this is the statement of * Allah Almighty *:
عورت `` And women have the same rights as men with goodness.
* Al-Baqarah: 228 *
Imam Qurtubi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
It is narrated on the authority of Ibn 'Abbaas that he said: `
That is to say, for these women, good companionship, and good and kind society is also on their husbands in the same way as Allah Almighty has made it obligatory on them to obey their husbands.
* ❄And it is also said: *
It is also for these women that their husbands should not hurt and harm them as it is for their husbands.
* * This is the view of Imam Tabari. *
And Ibn Zayd (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:
You should fear Allah Almighty about these women and fear Him, just as it is upon these women that they should also fear Allah Almighty about you and fear Him.
معنی `` And the meaning is almost the same for all, and the above verse is common to all the rights of marriage.
* See Tafsir Al-Qurtubi: 3 / 123- 124 *
* لہ واللہ اعلم *
* * Every Muslim man and woman should be aware of this: *
"So that they do not commit any kind of mistreatment and oppression towards each other."
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