Family and Life Ministry - OLLP, Tagaytay

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19/11/2024
15/06/2024

Simple and Solemn.

We had our wedding during the 6:00 AM, Monday mass . Walay bayad at all..
Since ang among entourage, sponsors is our family and co-teachers man lang, after the wedding, ni duty ra pud dayon sila. Gipadalhan lang ug pandesal 😊. Then pagkahapon, nag salo2x ginagmay.

Simple ra gyud ang tanan, pero ka nindot kaayo sa feeling..
It was early morning and pag-abot namo sa simbahan, nag fog pa. Foggy pero hayag ug hilom ang palibot. Mga tingog sa langgam ang madungog. It's really so simple and solemn nga mao gyud among gusto mahitabo. Ang importante, makadawat sa maong sacrament, ma bendisyonan.

Decorations: no decorations, no red carpet.
Wala nay paso2x sa bride ug sa tanan. Diretso na misa.

Hair and Make Up: Yours truly, lipstick lang, sapat na 😊

Dress: not a wedding gown, but it holds a special place in my heart since it's the dress I wore during the baptism of my son and with my daughter.

Wedding invitation cards, souvenirs: nothing, PM lang ug personal nga pag invite.😊

Boquet : Afternoon before the wedding, aysa pa nakadum2x nga mag-andam diay ug boquetπŸ˜…, so mao pay pagpangita namo ug bulak. Thanks to Maam Jane Alas and her daughter, nakapangayo mi ug roses. Gipa bugkos dayon namo ni manoy. Human😊

Wedding ring: same ra sa among gegamit during sa civil wedding, which is dili gyud pud mahalon. Di maprenda πŸ˜….

Belo: Thanks to Maam Josephine Floreta Montefalcon sa pagpahulam.

Cord, aras: pinalit lang sa Unitop, Mall of Asia πŸ˜….

Photographer: my sister 😊

Mass presider: Father Danboy Batayola Arellano .Thanks father sa tanan.

Very simple yet so memorable.
After 7 years of being civilly married, we finally have received the sacrament of matrimony. Thanks to God.
Sa una wala namo masabti unsa kabililhon ang kasal, maong nag civil wedding lang.
Now we understand that marriage is important. It is sacred.

Among huna-huna sa una, walay ikagasto maong dili magpakasal. Until one day, sa sige nako ug tan-aw sa mga videos ni Father Darwin Anober Gitgano , didto ko daghan ug na learn ug narealize. Didto nako nasabtan unsa ka important, ka sacred ang kasal. It is a covenant between God and the couple. We need to receive the sacraments to be in a state of grace. Modagayday ang panalangin sa Ginoo kung kita anaa sa state of grace.
It's a sin to live together nga wala gikasal. Truth hurts but it doesn't harm. Evil can attack us when we are not in a state of grace. I have experienced it firsthand. But I also experienced healing after receiving the sacraments. Sacraments are very powerful because it is instituted by Christ. If we only know how powerful it is, maghaudhod kita sa simbahan sa pagdawat niini.

Tungod pud sa videos/talks ni father, nalearn nako nga pwede ra man diay magpakasal nga walay daghang gasto. So after adto nga mga realizations, nagdecide dayon mi magpakasal. Gihikay ang mga papeles ug nagpakasal 😊.

Naay mga butang nga simple, pero kita ra ang naghimo niini ug complicated.

It's not the ring, nor the gown.
It's not the prominent sponsors, nor the extravagant decorations.
It's not the long walk in the aisle that makes it valuable. It's the blessing from God. β™₯️

I hope this helps to encourage partners specially those who wants to get married pero nagduha2x sa gasto.

Ad Dei gloriam!

(C) Carme Robante

13/06/2024

Ngano daghan brides late sa iyang kasal?
Ngano malagmit magka-ingon ingon
ang usa ka kasal?

Because of the above situations I always lecture the wedding couple beforehand when I am their wedding coordinator. Unsai best way to avoid kapalpakan in the wedding.

Two most inviolable rules in a wedding:
1. Do not be late for your wedding.
2. The most important part of the wedding is the wedding MASS itself. Everything else, repeat, EVERYTHING ELSE is only secondary.

Many brides get late because of two things - the gown, the make up. The other causes: the gown, the make up. See? The Lord does not care about your gown and make up on your wedding day. But ALL BRIDES are worried about HOW SHE WILL LOOK TO HER FRIENDS AND GUESTS! While it is true that her appearance matters on her most important day, DO NOT MAKE THE MISTAKE OF TREATING YOUR APPEARANCE AS MORE IMPORTANT THAN THE MASS. Some brides sacrifice the mass to have a perfect appearance. Bahalag ma late, basta guapa ko! Kay wala gaangay ang eye shadow, usbon. Kay gahiwi ang lipstick, usbon. Kay gatakilid ang headdress, usbon. ETC. Bahalag ma late basta guapa ko. BUYAG! Dili ka hulaton! Kaslon ka wah ka diha! Yes, gasugod na imong kasal wah pa kas simbahan!
Nganong mapalpak ang wedding? Because many wedding entourage members led by the bride TREAT THE WEDDING AS THE FOREMOST FASHION SHOW IN THEIR LIVES! Rather than the MOST IMPORTANT MASS IN THEIR COMING MARRIED LIFE! Each one is preoccupied with his/her visual presence in the church RATHER THAN THE SPIRITUAL PRESENCE FOR THE SACRIFICE OF THE MASS.
A wedding mass can proceed with the wedding party in any Sunday dress, can proceed without a choir, flowers, organist, etc. Only 5 persons and one guest are needed to complete a wedding - the wedding couple, 2 witnesses, the priest, and one guest, the most important guest you will ever need - Christ Himself who stands unseen beside the priest.
Do not insult your most important guest by keeping Him waiting kay nahiwi imong make up, kay nakunot imong gown.
Bisan unsaon nimog paninood, there is no perfect wedding. Dili tanan modayeg, naa gihapoi manaway sa imong make up, sa imong gown, sa church decor, etc. Naa gihapoi magbagolbol about the food. Which brings us back to the part of the wedding nga wala gyuy mosaway - the Mass itself. Sige, sawaya! And reap your reward.

Congratulations po Father Eugenio Lopez Ofm Cap on your Silver anniversary. GOD bless you more po Ingat po kayo palagi. ...
11/06/2024

Congratulations po Father Eugenio Lopez Ofm Cap on your Silver anniversary. GOD bless you more po Ingat po kayo palagi. Praying for you always...πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡πŸ˜‡β€οΈ

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