26/08/2026
Patroness of Mothers
Born in Algeria, in 331, to a deeply Christian family of some means. She was given in marriage to Patricius, a pagan, who was a small land-owner.
Patricius had some redeeming features, but he had a violent temper. Monica also had to bear with a cantankerous mother-in-law who lived in her home. Patricius criticized her charity and piety, but always respected her. Her prayers and example finally won her husband and mother-in-law to Christianity. Her husband died in 371, one year after his baptism.
Monica had 3 children, the oldest, Augustine, was only 17 when his father died, a rhetoric student in Carthage. Monica was distressed to learn that her son had accepted the Manichean heresy—”all flesh is evil”—and was living an immoral life. For a while, she refused to let him eat or sleep in her house. Then one night she had a vision that assured her Augustine would return to the faith. From that time on, she stayed close to her son, praying and fasting for him.
Augustine decided to go to Rome to teach rhetoric, but he set sail for Rome. Monica was heartbroken, travel was difficul but she still followed him. She arrived in Rome and pursued him to Milan.
In Milan, Augustine came under the influence of Bishop Saint Ambrose, who also became her spiritual director. Monica became a leader of the devout women in Milan.
She continued her prayers for Augustine during his years of instruction. At Easter 387, Saint Ambrose baptized Augustine and several of his friends.
No one else was aware that Monica knew her life was near the end. She told Augustine, “Son, nothing in this world now affords me delight. I do not know what there is now left for me to do or why I am still here, all my hopes in this world being now fulfilled.” She became ill shortly after and suffered severely for nine days before her death.
Almost all we know about St. Monica is in the writings of Saint Augustine, especially his Confessions.
Saint Monica is a model of patience. Her long years of persevering prayer, coupled with a strong faith, well-disciplined character finally led the conversion of her gifted son, St. Agustine.
From My Morning Prayer