Titus Woman

04/06/2025

Reaching out to restore fellowship after a long time away, especially when there are deep differences and past hurts involved, takes humility and a lot of grace. Here's how you can prepare yourself spiritually, emotionally, and practically:

🌱 1. Prepare Your Heart Before God First

Before talking to anyone else, spend time in prayer. Ask God to:

Search your heart – Psalm 139:23-24

Fill you with humility, truth, and love

Help you forgive where needed

Prepare their hearts as well

You’re not going back to prove yourself. You’re going back to show the fruit of God's work in your life — a testimony of grace, not perfection.

🗣 2. What You Might Say (Sample)

Here's a way you can open up the conversation when you meet them, whether it's in person or through a message/call first:

> “Hi [Name], I’ve been meaning to do this for a long time. I want to reconnect and hopefully restore our fellowship. I know I’ve been away for many years, and there were things I did and ways we hurt each other. I want to say I’m sorry. God has been working in my life, and I’m still growing. I now attend a different church, and though it's different in worship and culture, I’m still following Christ the best I can. I’m not here to argue or defend my life. I just want to be honest, show you respect, and hopefully find peace between us.”

Then you can leave space for them to respond. Be honest but not defensive. Let your peace and sincerity speak louder than explanations.

🛑 3. Set Healthy Boundaries

You don’t have to explain everything — especially parts they might not understand or accept right now (like your current relationship). You can say:

> “I know some things in my life may be difficult to understand or accept, and I respect that. I’m not asking for agreement — just for grace as I walk this journey with God. I’m open to talk, but I also want to be honest that I’ve grown and changed in some ways.”

You are not obligated to return to that church, or justify every choice. Restoration of fellowship doesn’t always mean returning to the same place.

🙏 4. Prepare for Mixed Reactions

People may:

Welcome you with grace

Be cautious or distant

Ask uncomfortable questions

Try to convince you to change direction

That’s okay. You’re not responsible for how they respond — only for how you carry yourself.

❤️ 5. Know Who You Are in Christ

Regardless of what they say or how they view your life now:

God knows your heart.

Your journey with Christ is valid, even if it looks different.

Your past doesn’t disqualify you — it becomes part of your testimony.

You are not coming back as a “failure,” but as someone who has walked a rough road and found grace again.

25/05/2025

I used to come to God with clenched fists holding my worries like precious burdens I couldn’t afford to drop. Now I come with open hands. Not because I don’t care, but because I know He cares more. Because I trust in who He is, not just what He does.

He doesn’t just heal diseases, He heals the unspoken wounds:
The quiet grief.
The relentless anxiety.
The scarred past.
The silent breakdowns we hide behind smiles.
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He sees it all, and He restores in ways we didn’t know we needed.

But He’s not only the Healer (Psalm 147:3)

He is the Father (1 John 3:1)
Not a distant overseer, but an intimate, loving Parent who kneels beside us when we weep and walks ahead of us when the road is dark.

He is the Shepherd (Psalm 23:1-3)
Guiding us through valleys, through seasons we don’t understand, through places where the map of our life seems to fall apart.

He is the Provider (Philippians 4:19)
Not just of money or material things, but of peace when we’re empty, hope when we’re numb, and clarity when the future is blurry.

He is Peace (Isaiah 26:3)
Not just a feeling, but a presence, and stillness in the middle of the storm. A voice that whispers, “I am here.”

He is Faithful (Lamentations 3:22-23)
Even when we waver.
Even when our faith is a flicker and not a flame.
Even when we can’t find the words to pray.

Because peace doesn't come from knowing how it will all work out.
It comes from knowing who holds it all.

So today, I choose trust over control.
Worship over worry.
Surrender over striving.

Not just once, but again and again.
Because His hands are safer than mine.

24/04/2025

BE STILL AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD.

There is a sacredness in stillness.

When life feels like a storm—loud, relentless, overwhelming—our instinct is often to fight it, fix it, or flee from it. But God doesn’t always meet us in the noise. More often, He invites us into the quiet. Not to escape life, but to be renewed in it.

QUIET TIME is not just a spiritual practice—it’s a holy refuge. It's not about productivity or performance. It’s about permission: permission to rest, to breathe, to come undone in the presence of the One who holds all things together.

You don't have to be strong here. You don't have to have answers. You don't even have to say anything.

You just have to BE.

BE STILL. That’s not a command to freeze—it’s an invitation to release. To let go of what you’re clenching. To unclench your fists, your thoughts, your expectations. To come as you are: weary, wandering, wondering.

AND KNOW THAT I AM GOD. He is not asking you to carry the weight. He is reminding you that He already is. In your quiet time, He speaks—not always with words, but with presence. With peace. With stillness that wraps around you like a warm blanket in winter.

When you make space for the quiet, you’re not just removing distractions—you’re making room for God to move, to comfort, to speak life into places you didn’t even know were hurting.

Reflection:

What noise in your life is crowding out God’s voice?

Have you felt afraid of stillness—afraid of what might surface there?

Can you allow quiet to be a place of healing instead of emptiness?

14/04/2025

I Felt Like I Was Judged

I went to a shop inside a mall somewhere down the road. I headed to the long dresses section and took my time choosing. Eventually, I picked one dress and asked the sales lady how much it was since it didn’t have a price tag. She replied in an annoyed tone, “800 'yan.”

I asked again, “All the dresses there, po?” She answered, “May 1,000 din doon,” still sounding upset. It even seemed like she wanted to take the dress from my hand, but I walked back to the rack, put it back, and left.

Her attitude felt so unwelcoming. The way she looked at me made me feel like she thought I couldn’t afford it or that I wasn’t the type of person who should be buying or wearing that kind of dress.

For context, I was wearing a white t-shirt, loose grey pants, Crocs, and a blue cap. I was carrying a canvas tote bag for small shopping, but inside it was my sling bag with my wallet and two phones.

I left not because I couldn’t afford it, but because no one deserves to be treated that way.

Still, I decided to check out the other entrance of the same shop where they had terno sets, blazers with pants, dresses with blazers, things like that.

As soon as I walked in, the same sales lady at the front started following me and yes, she was staring at me wherever I went. At first, I thought maybe it was normal, that she just wanted to be available in case I had questions.

But then I noticed something odd.

Other ladies were coming in, some in pairs, some in groups, and she didn’t greet them or follow them. She didn’t even acknowledge them. But me? She kept trailing behind, watching my every move, as if she expected me to take something.

It honestly made me sad. I never want to assume the worst of others, but that moment made me reflect on how easily people can judge based on appearances.

I left that shop not with anger, but with a heavy heart. I know who I am, and I know my worth isn’t based on how I dress or what I carry. But not everyone sees that right away—and that’s okay. We all have different experiences and perspectives.

Still, I believe kindness, respect, and fairness should always be part of how we treat others—especially in places where we’re meant to serve and welcome people. You never know what someone is going through or who they might be.

So if you’re ever in a position to serve others, I hope you’ll choose to be kind. And if you’ve ever felt judged for being yourself, I want you to know you’re not alone—and you deserve to be treated with dignity, ALWAYS. ❤️

PS, I didn’t walk away out of pride, but out of principle. And that’s something to be proud of.

We can’t control how others see us or treat us, but we can always choose how we respond. And in my case, my response showed character.

- Ey

12/04/2025

"Not that I speak in respect of want: for I have learned, in whatsoever state I am, therewith to be content".
- Philippians 4:11

In a world that constantly tells us “you need more,” it’s easy to get caught in the cycle of spending—trying to feel better, trying to keep up, or just trying to fill a void. But the truth is, the more we chase after things, the emptier we can feel. Paul reminds us that contentment isn’t something that just happens—it’s learned. And it’s learned not through willpower, but through the strength of Christ in us.

God isn’t mad at you for overspending. He’s not disappointed in your weakness. He’s inviting you into a better way: a life where peace doesn’t come from what you buy, but from who He is. His grace covers your past choices, and His Spirit empowers your future ones. You can grow. You can change. And you already have everything you need in Him.

Prayer:
Lord, I admit I’ve been leaning on spending to bring comfort or distraction. Teach me to be content in You. Give me wisdom, discipline, and a heart that trusts Your provision. I believe I can do this—not because I’m strong, but because You are. Help me walk in freedom. Amen.

10/04/2025

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.”
— Galatians 5:22-23

In today’s world, academic achievement is celebrated—and rightfully so. Earning the title "With Honors" takes dedication, perseverance, and hard work. Students wear medals and receive certificates that validate long nights of studying and consistent excellence in schoolwork. But as we celebrate grades, let's not forget something just as important, if not more: character.

While being “With Honors” may open doors to colleges, scholarships, and careers, being “With Manners” opens hearts. It reflects Christ in our everyday interactions. Kindness, respect, humility, and compassion aren't graded on a report card, but they speak volumes about who we are—and whose we are.

Jesus never received a diploma, but He changed the world with how He loved and treated others. In Philippians 2:3, Paul reminds us, “Let nothing be done through strife or vainglory; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem other better than themselves". That’s the heart of having good manners—not just saying “please” and “thank you,” but living with integrity, putting others first, and honoring God in how we treat people.

In a culture obsessed with achievements, God calls us to develop the fruit of the Spirit. A medal may shine for a moment, but a Christ-like heart leaves a lasting legacy.

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Heavenly Father,
Thank You for the wisdom, knowledge, and gifts You have given me. While I strive to do well in school, help me never to forget the importance of godly character. Teach me to walk in humility, to love sincerely, and to live in such a way that honors You. May I not only be known for excellence in academics, but for excellence in attitude, kindness, and faith. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen

10/04/2025

You’ve endured a lot—feeling bullied, unheard, and perhaps even betrayed in the workplace. In moments of frustration and deep hurt, it’s easy to feel like no one sees you or understands the pain you’re carrying. But God promises us in His Word that He sees us. He is close to the brokenhearted, and He rescues those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).

Jesus invites you to come to Him when you are weary and burdened, offering rest and peace for your soul (Matthew 11:28). The stress, the negative energy, and the weight of your past experiences don’t have to be carried alone. When you surrender these things to Him, He gives you strength, even in the midst of difficult circumstances.

Remember that God is your refuge and strength (Psalm 46:1). He is with you, providing comfort and healing as you walk through this season. Your worth is not determined by the actions of others, but by the love and grace of your Creator.

Even in moments where you feel misunderstood or rejected, trust that God is with you. Just as He strengthened Paul when he faced opposition, He will strengthen you (2 Timothy 4:17). His love will never leave you, and He will continue to guide you toward peace, healing, and new beginnings.

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Lord,
I bring my hurts and frustrations to You today. You know the pain I’ve endured and the weight of the burden I carry. I thank You for Your promise that You are near to the brokenhearted and that You offer rest for my weary soul. Help me release the anger and bitterness that I’ve been holding onto, and fill me with Your peace. I trust that You will restore my heart and lead me toward new opportunities and healing. Thank You for being my strength when I feel weak and for standing by me when I feel alone. Help me to walk in the peace that only You can give.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

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Take comfort in knowing that God sees you and hears your cries for help. He will provide peace in your heart, even when the circumstances around you feel overwhelming. Trust Him to lead you through this time of healing and into the peace you so deeply deserve.

09/04/2025

1 Samuel 1:10-11, 20
“Hannah was in deep anguish, crying bitterly as she prayed to the Lord. And she made a vow, saying, ‘Lord Almighty, if you will only look on your servant’s misery and remember me, and not forget your servant but give her a son, then I will give him to the Lord for all the days of his life, and no razor will ever be used on his head.’ … So in the course of time Hannah became pregnant and gave birth to a son. She named him Samuel, saying, ‘Because I asked the Lord for him.’”

Reflection:
Hannah’s story is one of deep anguish and unwavering faith. For years, she prayed, despaired, and waited, but still, no child came. Yet, she did not abandon her faith. Instead, she poured her heart out to God with raw honesty, trusting that He heard her. Her prayer was not just about wanting a son—it was about surrendering her deepest desire to God’s will. In her grief, she knew that God was the only one who could fulfill her longing.

How many times have we prayed, waited, and wondered if God was listening? How many times have we felt like our prayers go unanswered, or our hopes seem unfulfilled? Hannah’s life teaches us that even in the waiting, God is present. He sees our pain, hears our cries, and knows what is best for us. And His timing, though it may not always align with our own, is always perfect.

Hannah’s devotion didn’t stop after God answered her prayer. She kept her vow, dedicating Samuel to God’s service. Her story shows us the importance of gratitude and surrender. When God blesses us, we are called to respond with hearts of worship, offering back to Him what He has graciously given.

Lesson:

Trust God’s Timing: Even when we don’t understand, we can trust that God’s plan for us is perfect. Waiting can be painful, but it is also a time where our faith grows stronger.

Pray with a Surrendered Heart: When we bring our requests to God, we should do so with open hands, ready to accept His will, knowing that His answers are always for our good.

Respond with Gratitude: Just as Hannah gave her son Samuel back to God, we are called to respond to God’s blessings with thankful and generous hearts.

Prayer:
Lord, thank You for the example of Hannah’s faith. Help us to trust in Your perfect timing, even when we don’t understand the delays. Teach us to pray with honesty and surrender, knowing You hear every cry of our heart. May we always respond to Your blessings with hearts full of gratitude, willing to give back to You what You have given us. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Application:
Today, take a moment to reflect on the areas where you are waiting or feeling unfulfilled. Bring them before God with faith, trusting that His timing is perfect. Ask God to help you surrender your desires to Him, and to help you respond with gratitude in all circumstances.

07/04/2025

Living with anxiety feels like a constant battle between my faith and my fears. Each day brings a new challenge, and I often find myself caught between the desire to trust in God’s plan and the overwhelming urge to protect myself from the unknown. The fear I experience isn’t always something I can control, and sometimes, it feels as if I am locked in a cycle of worry that I cannot break.

One of the hardest parts of living with anxiety is the way it can be triggered by the things I encounter in everyday life. In a world that’s filled with so much suffering and violence, it feels like there’s no escaping the pain. Whenever I pick up my phone and open social media—whether it’s Facebook, YouTube, or the news—I am bombarded with images and stories of accidents, crimes, and tragedies happening around the world. Each story weighs heavily on my heart, filling me with a sense of helplessness and fear for my loved ones and for myself. It feels as though I am constantly reminded of the brokenness in this world.

A psychologist once said that trauma and fear are deeply personal—each person experiences them differently, and each person has their own way of coping with them. This rings true for me. What triggers anxiety in my life may not be the same for someone else, and the way I cope might look different from others. Yet, despite our individual struggles, I find comfort in knowing that I am not alone in my journey.

In those moments, I turn to prayer. I pour out my heart to God, asking for His protection over my loved ones and for His strength to calm my anxious heart. Prayer brings me comfort and peace, reminding me that I am not alone in my struggles. But even with prayer, the sadness and fear linger. The world’s chaos seems ever-present, and sometimes, I wonder if I will ever truly feel free from the anxiety that grips my soul.

Yet, as a Christian, I know that God calls me to trust in Him, even when the world feels uncertain. His Word reminds me that He is always with me, that He holds me in His hands, and that I do not need to carry the weight of fear alone. Matthew 6:34 tells us not to worry about tomorrow because each day has enough trouble of its own, and Philippians 4:6-7 encourages us to bring our anxieties before God in prayer, trusting that He will give us peace beyond understanding. I hold onto these promises, even when it feels difficult to believe them in the midst of my fear.

I am learning that my anxiety doesn’t define me, and that I can choose to rely on God’s strength instead of being consumed by my fears. It’s not easy, and there are days when the anxiety seems too much to bear, but I know that through Christ, I can find the courage to face each day. I pray not only for my own peace of mind but also for the ability to trust more deeply in God’s plan, knowing that He is faithful, even in the midst of my struggles.

As I continue on this journey, I remind myself that it’s okay to feel anxious sometimes, but I don’t have to let fear control my life. God’s love and grace are far greater than any fear or worry that I face. I believe that with time and faith, I will find peace, and I will learn to live more fully in the freedom that comes from trusting in God’s sovereignty over my life.

- Ey

07/04/2025