24/08/2026
Are there people in your life whom you find difficult to love? Someone who has hurt you and never apologized? Someone you are called to show kindness to even though they may never give anything back?
It is easy to love people who love us in return. It is easy to be generous when we know our kindness will be remembered, appreciated, or repaid. We naturally want to give our love to those whom we think deserve it.
But the love Jesus showed us goes much deeper than that.
Jesus loved His enemies. He showed mercy to sinners. He prayed for those who crucified Him. He served people knowing that some would reject Him, abandon Him, and even betray Him. His love was never based on what people could give Him in return.
That is sacrificial love.
Jesus said in John 13:35, “Your love for one another will prove to the world that you are my disciples.”
Jesus was teaching that one of the clearest evidences that we belong to Him is not merely what we say about our faith, but how His love begins to shape the way we treat others. Christian love should look different because its source is Christ Himself.
This does not mean pretending that sin does not matter, tolerating abuse, or removing every healthy boundary. Biblical love still speaks truth and seeks what is good. But it refuses hatred, bitterness, revenge, and the mindset that says, “I will only love you if you deserve it.”
May we all learn to love like Jesus, with a love that does not constantly ask, “What will I receive in return?”
Because this is exactly how Christ loved us.
Romans 5:8 declares, “But God showed his great love for us by sending Christ to die for us while we were still sinners.”
Jesus did not wait for us to become worthy before loving us. He loved us while we were still sinners and gave Himself for us on the cross.
So when loving someone becomes difficult, may we remember the Gospel. We are not being asked to manufacture this kind of love by our own strength. We love because we ourselves have first been loved by Christ.
May the world see something of Jesus through the way we love, forgive, give, serve, and show mercy to others, even when there is nothing for us to gain in return.