CANA, "a choice to love"

22/05/2026

22/05/2026

Desiderata

GO PLACIDLY amid the noise and the haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexatious to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain or bitter, for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment, it is as perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with dark imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be.
And whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

By Max Ehrmann © 1927

13/05/2026

As we walk together through the joys and struggles of married life, may we never lose sight of what it means to love as Christ loves - fully, faithfully, and forever. Let our days be marked by kindness, our words shaped by grace, and our hearts strengthened by prayer. In every season, may our marriage reflect the goodness of God who first loved us.

“Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds everything together in perfect harmony.” – Colossians 3:14

“Love…to will the good of another”

11/05/2026

DSPSPP FLA ‎ | May 9, 2026

Christ’s Transformative Presence:
Challenges are not dead ends, but spaces where Christ's presence transforms ordinary life into extraordinary love. Keeping God at the center builds intimacy, fuels passion, and honors commitment.

"Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that.“ - 1 Corinthians 7:28

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11/05/2026

08/05/2026

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.”

08/05/2026

"Yet those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that.“ - 1 Corinthians 7:28

Before you walk down the aisle. Do you know where you are going?

04/05/2026

Type of Intimacy:
Emotional | Sharing feelings, vulnerabilities, and empathy. | Builds trust, safety, and deep connection; essential for conflict resolution.

Physical | Affectionate touch (hugging, cuddling, kissing, s*x). | Reinforces love and security; reduces stress and strengthens attachment.

Sexual | Passionate and erotic connection. | Enhances desire, pleasure, and exclusivity; prevents relational stagnation.

Intellectual | Sharing ideas, debates, and curiosity. | Encourages respect and admiration; keeps the relationship stimulating.

Spiritual | Shared faith, values, or practices (prayer, meditation). | Provides meaning, unity, and resilience during challenges.

Experiential | Doing activities together (travel, hobbies, chores). | Creates shared memories and teamwork; strengthens companionship.

Creative | Playful | Humor, imagination, and fun. | Keeps the relationship lighthearted; reduces tension and boredom.

Conflictual | Ability to argue constructively and repair. | Prevents resentment; teaches forgiveness and growth.

Social | Bonding through friendships, family, and community. | Expands support networks; balances couple identity with social life.

Future-Oriented | Dreaming and planning together. | Aligns goals and vision; fosters unity and long-term commitment.

16/04/2026

Marriage is an eternal concept. It is meant to be a loving, intimate, selfless relationship between a man and a woman that lasts through eternity.
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