15/11/2025
❤️ Loving People the Way Jesus Calls Us To
Yesterday I spoke with a young person who shared something that really stayed with me. She told me that when she identified as gay, Christians would approach her in the mall and tell her she needed to repent.
I gently asked her, “Did that make you want to follow Jesus or turn away from Him?”
She said, “It made me turn away. It made me not like Christians.”
But then she added something that humbled me:
“You’re different. You’ve shown me love. You follow God’s command to love people, not condemn them.”
Friend, this is what Jesus calls us to: love first.
Not shouting at people.
Not judging them.
Just love.
The truth is, the Bible does not focus heavily on the topic of homosexuality—only a few verses mention it directly. But the Bible speaks hundreds of times about things like pride, greed, gossip, anger, selfishness, and unkindness.
And Jesus repeatedly called out one group the most:
the religious who lacked love.
Here’s what Scripture reminds us:
❤️ 1. Love is the greatest command
“The greatest of these is love.” — 1 Corinthians 13:13
❤️ 2. It is God’s kindness that leads people to repentance—not our condemnation
“God’s kindness is meant to lead you to repentance.” — Romans 2:4
❤️ 3. Jesus didn’t come to condemn people
“For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through Him.” — John 3:17
❤️ 4. Our job is simple: love people as He loved us
“A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you.” — John 13:34
❤️ 5. Let your gentleness be what people encounter
“Let your gentleness be evident to all.” — Philippians 4:5
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People are not saved by being shouted at in a mall.
People are not transformed by fear, shame, or pressure.
But they are drawn to Jesus through genuine love, kindness, and relationship.
If someone meets us and feels loved, accepted, safe, and seen—
they are far more likely to become curious about the God who loves them even more.
May we be Christians who make people say,
“I felt the love of Jesus through you,”
not,
“You pushed me away.”