21/05/2026
What is Love?
Episode 8
©Uche Annabel
"Ada o, you are yet to tell me what's going on between you and Harry. What's going on?" She asked.
I sighed tiredly.
"We broke up." I replied calmly.
"My goodness!" She exclaimed. "How? Is it still because you didn't grant his request?"
"Yeah, but there's also another reason."
"What is the other reason?" She asked.
"The HOLY SPIRIT. He told me Harry was not his will for me. You know, I didn't really commune with GOD before entering the relationship. I felt he ticked all my boxes based on what I saw and felt." I said, leaning forward.
"Tell me something!" She laughed and fell backwards.
"You can laugh if you want but I must tell you, I see the reasons why He said so. You know, I wish I listened a lot earlier, I would have saved myself the stress of heartbreak, the time wasted investing in a useless relationship."
"Hmm!" She exclaimed sarcastically.
"I learnt a lot from The HOLY SPIRIT this period. Love is not determined by s*x, fornication or adultery, folly is. Love is patient, is kind, does not seek after its own, is not boastful and neither is it rude but Harry displayed the exact opposite of this -very hateful, impatient and selfish. I honestly do not know why I clung unto him. But I thank GOD that we have gone our separate ways." I replied.
By the time I finished talking, Oma was calm. The smug smile had disappeared from her face. She just gently nodded.
"What?" I asked.
"I have learnt a lot from you. When I dated John, Emeka and others, I gave them my body all to prove my love and still none of them stayed but your courage to walk out of a relationship that is on the verge of becoming marriage is commendable. Looking back, I realize how foolish I was." She said and bowed her head.
"My Dear, GOD still loves you and He is waiting for you to return to Him. His word says that if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from every unrighteousness. He is ready to forgive you but are you willing to turn to Him?" I asked gently.
"I am." She replied. "Please pray for me and lead me to GOD. I want you to pray for me. I want to hear The HOLY SPIRIT like you do."
"Alright. There is joy in heaven over one sinner. Say after me: LORD JESUS, come into my heart. I am a sinner and I am sorry for my sins. Please wash me with your blood and make me clean. I accept you as my Lord and Personal Savior. Please, cancel my name from the book of death and write my name in the book of Life, in JESUS' Name, Amen."
That was how Oma turned to JESUS. Your response to temptation can be the reason why someone will either turn to or away from GOD. It may not be easy but when you turn to GOD for strength, you will always overcome.
I met Luke during my service year and we got married after our courtship. He was GOD's choice. Till today, I thank GOD that I didn't end up with Harry. May GOD be praised!
The End.
✍️Uche Annabel