14/08/2025
TEENS SUNDAY SCHOOL RESOURCE,
ASSEMBLIES OF GOD, NIGERIA.
SEASON 19
JULY – DECEMBER, 2025.
SUNDAY, 17TH AUGUST, 2025.
UNIT 2: CRISIS POINTS
STUDY 2: TAKING LIFE INTO YOUR OWN HANDS
TEXTS: Job 3:20-23; Psalm 139:7-10; Prov 8:35-36; Eccl 2:17; Jer 29:11; Matt 19:26; John 10:10; Romans 8:28, 35-39; 1 Cor 6:19-20; Eph 2:10
KEY VERSE: Jeremiah 10:23
I know, O Lord, that a man's life is not his own, it is not for man to direct his steps. (NIV)
>>Focus
The teenage years are often tumultuous. Students learn new social roles, develop relationships, get used to physical changes, and make decisions about the future. When a teen is looking for answers to all these issues, it can seem like no one has them and that can lead to feelings of misunderstanding, isolation, and hopelessness. In such an environment, normal problems can seem huge, and big problems, insurmountable.
Today's study considers what happens when a teen reaches a point of ultimate despair and begins to contemplate taking his or her own life. It examines su***de's contributing factors and warning signs. And it offers scriptural encouragement in dealing with suicidal thoughts, along with practical advice for helping friends.
When a teen commits su***de, many people are affected family, friends, neighbours. Even those who didn't know the person well may experience grief, confusion, and guilt. Many may wonder if they could have prevented the tragedy. But the reasons behind a teen's su***de can be complex. One lesson can't resolve these issues. But it can prepare teens to cope with situations that might otherwise devastate them. As you present the lesson, prayerfully exercise care and sensitivity. You may have students who have even recently contemplated or attempted su***de and are looking for someone who will take their struggle seriously. May your presentation show your students the hope and joy that God's Word brings.
>>>The Basic Message: Explain to students....
• WHAT'S THE BIG IDEA?
Su***de isn't just giving up on life; it's giving up on God.
• WHY DOES IT MATTER?
Su***de devastates more than individual lives; it's a permanent solution to temporary problems and denies the hope that God offers.
• HOW DO I LIVE IT?
With God's help, resist suicidal thoughts and display hope to those struggling with them.
>>Study Overview: Explain that today's study considers....
• The contributing factors to su***de and suicidal tendencies.
• The temporary and eternal effects and implications of su***de.
• How God helps people overcome suicidal thoughts and gain hope.
• How to help those who may be struggling with suicidal thoughts.
>>Inform and Discuss
a. Point of Hopelessness
1. What pressures in society contributes to suicidal rate? [Hint: Pressure to perform or look a certain way puts stress on many teens. The breakdown of family and other relationships can also lead to emotional stress and Instability. The general tone of turmoil, violence, and uncertainty in society also causes many people to lose hope.]
2. Read or have volunteers read the following passages and describe the feelings they portray: Job 3:20-23 [Hint: Weariness, bitterness, feeling trapped and isolated.] Eccl 2:17 [Hint: Futility, pressure, and hopelessness. Ask students if they've ever felt these emotions.
>>Guide: Emphasize that these emotions are common even with godly people. But when people reach a point of despair (a feeling of hopelessness and a loss of hope) that causes them to consider su***de, professional help and intervention may become necessary. People commit su***de because they believe it's the only alternative to the pain the feel. In other words, su***de occurs when the gap between where a person is and where he or she want to be seems so great that he or she perceives no hope of ever bridging that gap.
3. List and discuss the following factors that often contribute to teen su***de Breakdown of family; Unrealistic expectations from others or self; Loss of a close interpersonal relationship; Erosion of relational roots and traditional ties: Drug and alcohol abuse; Disillusionment Changing views regarding death. Talk about why these issues can have a severe impact, or could even lead to su***de. Then discuss why the following support systems can be effective in preventing su***de: Loving family, Committed friends; Hope derived from faith in God.
b. Point of No Return
>>Guide: Explain that teens who contemplate or commit su***de have an "ideal" of how life should be or what they want. But they feel so far from that ideal or unable to attain it that they see no point in even trying. They consider su***de the only "solution." But su***de is a permanent response to temporary problems; it's irreversible.
1. Do you think that a person who takes his or her own life can still go to heaven? Explain.
>>Hint: Although the Bible doesn't specifically address the issue of su***de, it is implied, it falls under the same judgment as murder (Rev 21:8). Generally, it is said: "He who does not create life must not take it." Whenever anyone who does not create life takes it, it is murder - irrespective of whose life he has taken, whether the life of another or his own. So, su***de is in the same category as murder, for he who kills himself," as Augustine rightly observed, "kills nothing less than man." Su***de is always influenced by demons, which sell to the person the falsehood that even the death of Christ is not enough to fix the problems he or she is facing. In many cases, su***de victims have given up on God and refused to accept His help long before reaching the end of life.
2. Read or have volunteers read the following passages and summarize what each says about God's purpose for our lives. Jer 29:11-God has a plan for our future. No matter how things appear now, we can look ahead with hope. Eph 2:10 We are God's unique creations, made for a purpose, to do things for His glory.
>>Note: God created us to live purposeful and productive lives that honour Him. Su***de rejects that plan and devalues human life. Su***de is not just giving up on oneself, It's giving up on God. Thus, people take a serious eternal risk by taking their lives and denying God the opportunity to make something positive of it. While the Bible attests of so many saints, who at one time were overwhelmed with so much troubles, but they trusted God and came out triumphantly.
3. Read or have volunteers read the following passages. Discuss the difference between God's plan for our lives and the devil's plan.
• Proverbs 8:35-36-Finding God brings life, but rejecting Him brings death.
• John 10:10-Satan destroys lives, but Jesus brings fulfilment.
• Romans 8:28-God is able to work out all things for good.
>>Note: Su***de fits Satan's plan for our lives, while rejecting God's plan. The main issue for someone contemplating su***de is finding hope to get past their despair and accepting the life God intended for them. God never promises a life free from pain, but He does promise never to leave or forsake us (Deut. 31:8).
c. Giving Up to Gad
>>Guide: Explain that su***de takes a life for which God had other plans. It isn't simply a matter of people giving up on themselves. It's giving up on God and rejecting the opportunity to display His power and freedom.
1. Read or have volunteers read Jer 10:23; 1 Cor 6:19-20. (Point out that the second verse applies to abusing one's body through sexual immorality, but the principle also applies to su***de.) in what ways does su***de defy these Biblical statements? (Hint: Our lives are not our own to do with as we please. Jesus bought our salvation with His own life, and God deserves to direct the course of our lives. Su***de destroys our lives, preventing us from honouring God.]
2. Read or have volunteers read the following passages. What are the root issues of despair captured in these passages and God's promises to overcome them.
• Romans 8:35-39-Love: Nothing can separate us from God's love.
• Psalm 139:7-10-Loneliness: God is always with us.
• Matt 19:26 Hopelessness: All things are possible, including getting over the present problems and getting over the past.
>Guide: Remind teens that the ultimate solution is a personal encounter with Jesus. For some, this encounter can start with what they see in us.
d. Giving Hope to Others
>>Guide: Play the song "There is a Hope" by Thrive Worship. You can access it on YouTube via this link: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ai9GeuBB0_k
1. Discuss what it means to choose joy and experience hope because we know that Jesus is alive. Ask students to explain why it's best to change a negative mind-set. [Guide: Remind students that choosing joy does not mean "being fake" or smiling just to be polite; it means choosing to walk in God's light and hope instead of darkness.]
2. What might contribute to a person's suicidal tendencies? How should these things be dealt with? [Hint: Avoid things that foster desperate or destructive emotions (e.g., certain music, tense relationships, self-destructive habits, isolation, etc.). These might seem to offer emotional release, but can actually accentuate hopelessness and negativity.]
3. How would you respond if someone you know talks about su***de?
>>Guide: Explain that we must take it seriously when someone we know talks about su***de. Emphasize that students should not attempt to counsel suicidal friends on their own. There may be times when action is necessary before additional help is available. But as soon as possible, they should involve trusted adults-parents, teachers, pastors-who can get the proper assistance (e.g., Christian Counsellors or other professionals).
>>Ministry Activity: Have students stand in circle. Invite any who are feeling overwhelmed, isolated, or hopeless in any way to step into the circle to receive prayer. (They could stand in for people they know who are at a point of desperation.) Emphasize that this is not an admission of suicidal thoughts, but will require boldness. This can be a great time for healing and accountability to begin. Explain that this represents the fact we aren't alone As Christians, we should guard and protect each other. Have teens surround their friends while volunteers pray that God would bring hope and love to these lives. Close by asking God to guide students if they ever need to help someone in crisis.
>>Invitation Option: Christianity isn't about unreasonable standards; it's about a relationship that all are searching for. Invite students who still need the hope Christ offers to pray with you and begin a relationship with Him today.
>>DAILY DEW DROPS:
Mon: The greater One lives in you – 1 John 4:4
Tue: You are loved – 1 John 4:18-19
Wed: Trust God – Jer 29:11
Thu: Fear not – Isaiah 41:10
Fri: Cast your care on God – Psalm 55:22
Sat: Don't give up, fight! – 1 Tim 6:12
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