21/11/2025
Dear Young Woman,
In today's Friday Palava with bigMary.
I want to remind you that this temptation to curse Nigeria is real, but I beg you not to be a part of it at all, and that's also part of the plan. For the countrymen and women to continue to curse a blessed nation. You can't curse a blessed nation, no matter what. Go and read your scriptures well.
See eeeehn, Nigeria is so blessed, and why we are facing this high level of challenge is because of how God has greatly blessed us. This nation will fulfil prophecies; it's just a matter of time. Mark my words.
I just want to encourage the young Nigerian woman out there to please not get discouraged with Nigeria, that you begin to abuse the president or any Nigerian political or church leader. It's not your duty to curse them. You can remind them of their obligations, but please don't curse.
Your duty is this: come with me as I write.
These people were not your problem, are not your problem and will never be your problem. Your real enemy is the person around you who knows the truth and has refused to embrace it, especially now that it is very glaring to us.
Don't be tempted to think that the Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa, or one tribe like that is our problem. After all, that was what they wanted us to believe: that one particular tribe in Nigeria is the problem.
I don't want you to fall for that lie. Just yesterday, you saw what happened to a particular tribe man like that, how they humiliated him and his tribesmen, and they made us believe again that nobody is coming to save us, indirectly painting it to us that even the foreign aid might also not be of help to us.
That's a BIG LIE!
That's to show you that our real help will not come as a man but will come through a man. That's how God works. Real help actually comes from the Lord who made the heavens and the earth. Yes, it comes through men, don't forget. Read that again!
After all these have been said and done, it is to make us arise and begin to do what they had always expected us to do as planned.
To fight physically, a particular tribe tried to do it in Nigeria and what became of them. More chaos and now, how far?
Please, as a woman, you have better equipment to fight, as seen in Ephesians 6:10-18. Go back to my post of 20/11/2025. Don't think that spirituality doesn't work again. Don't allow your fellow woman to discourage you from praying or to stop praying completely.
My point is this: prayer still works. Don't allow anybody to water down prayer around you because of what is happening. See Sis., we need to stop praying as usual, begin to ask that the lord God Almighty grant us the divine wisdom and the strategies on how to tackle this challenge that has come to swallow us.
Scripture says, women will receive their dead back to life and that includes Nigeria. This nation might look dead now, but it will surely come back to life. She is depending on you and I, the womb carriers to do that. Please, Nigerian young women, arise and let God hear our cry once again. Listen up, no prayer is fruitless!
The battle line has been drawn a long time ago. They won't stop until we arise both spiritually and physically. Emphasis on physically BUT of course, we cannot afford to fight foolishly like we did on the 20th of October, 2020!
New strategy for the new Nigeria.
Say this, we receive a new strategy for the new Nigeria... Amen!
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Your Sincerely,
Marylynda Obioha
From a sister in love
With young women's
Spiritual and physical growth.
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