24/05/2026
WISDOM SERVICE TEACHING HIGHLIGHTS || 24 /05/ 2026
TOPIC: Why Christian Ladies Marry Late ( CONTD)
TEACHER: Pst. Kingsley Chukwu
(4) Fear of the "Wrong Man"
📌Whatever you are scared of becomes your reality.
📌If you are too careful, you will make mistakes.
📌Waiting for too long because you're waiting for the perfect man.
📌If you have a negative mindset/mentality, you will never have good things.
(5) Hyper Spiritual Practices i.e., "too spiritual"
For example; "if I don't hear a voice from heaven saying - this is your husband, then I won't get married." So you've been waiting for years, past your prime.
📌There are different ways through which God speaks.
📌Spirituality doesn't sustain a marriage, emotional intelligence does.
📌Dreams can be revelational OR destructive - Be careful with your dreams. They either come from God or your thoughts, so they aren't reliable all the time, especially concerning who you are to marry.
📌Don't marry just by prophecy - prophesies should be confirmation to what God has told you already, not new information.
📌Marriage is 50-50; 50% Spiritual & 50% Physical [Emotional, mental, etc].
(6) Strategic Positioning
📌Learn to socialize in church, at work, & public events, etc.
📌 Most church girls don't socialize or go out. Sell yourself, position yourself.
📌Ruth met Boaz because she positioned herself strategically.
📌 Attend meetings, conferences, learn how to talk and relate with people.
TO BE CONTINUED....
