22/10/2024
QUESTION:
Does appearance matter in a relationship? Does age matters in a relationship?
ANSWER:
Although Age is very important but it is just a number,the most important thing you should look at in a relationship is the will of God.
What is necessary here is the guy, he need to empower and equip himself to be the head of the family that God has ordained him to be, spiritually physically financially and emotionally, he must step up over and above the wife/lady, in most cases I have witnessed four to five cases where the lady is older than the man, but you will never know except you were told, reason been that the guy met the requirements. And the moment a guy meet the requirements in marriage he is good to go.
Age is not maturity you can be aging and not be matured,, if you are 40 and still behave like 15 year old, mommy boy or daddy's boy then you are not matured, but you can be 25 and have the mindset of a 40 year old,
Conclusively, If the guy is matured then age doesn't matter, and for the lady in question, she needs a special grace to be absolutely submissive to the authority of the guy, take the age out of the way, treat him like the king of your life and the crown of your head , and with submission the marriage is already a success,,,
Secondly, Does appearance really Matter in a relationship?
Like I said during the course of my teaching, its a Yes and No , the most important thing is to dress moderately, and not the other way round, whether you are a guy or a lady, opening the sensitive part of your body all in the name of fashion speaks a lot about you, no responsible guy would want to approach a lady who is not well dressed, cause you can only attract your kind..as a lady dress moderately and responsibly, whether you are a guy or a lady , modesty is the key word. As a responsible lady you don't choose to go out with a guy who sags and who does not have a dress sense, no matter his spirituality he can not be responsible.
Dressing irresponsibly is quite different from one who is managing due to his financial capabilities, wearing one clothes all the time is not a sign of irresponsibility but rather lack of finance, you don't need to spend fortune on dress before you look good, it's not a Matter of money but mentality.
You must dress decently, modestly and responsibly.