16/05/2026
TEENS SUNDAY SCHOOL RESOURCE,
ASSEMBLIES OF GOD, NIGERIA.
SEASON 20
JANUARY – JUNE, 2026.
SUNDAY, 17TH MAY, 2026.
UNIT 5: WHEN THINGS GO WRONG (JOB)
STUDY 3: REACH OUT TO HURTING PEOPLE
TEXT: Job 6:14; 19:1-3; 42:11; Psalm 34:18; Isaiah 61:1-3; Gal 6:1; Heb 3:13
KEY VERSE:
2 Corinthians 1:3-4
Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God. (NIV)
>>Focus
Have you ever ran into a friend that was bereaved, and you didn't know what to tell him? Probably, you thought to yourself, "If I say something now, will he burst into tears? It's just like some people are way better at this whole sympathy thing, maybe I should leave it for them." Well, you're not alone. Some people think compassion and comfort are gifts distributed down gender lines: Women are the compassionate ones, and men are supposed to be strong and silent.
The excuses are as varied as the people who think them up, but the fact is God expects His children to be conduits of His comfort and compassion to those hurting around us. No excuses. No exemptions. Offering comfort and encouragement to someone who is hurting isn't just a social nicety. It's the fabric of Christianity. Jesus felt compassion (John 11:33). Paul refers to God as "the God of all comfort" (2 Cor 1:3). If your compassion has been lacking, ask God to fill you with His compassion, and then let it spill over into the lives of those to whom you come into contact.
As you present this study, encourage your teens to minister comfort and compassion to the hurting and needy that they encounter in their daily lives, Their actions can preach a more eloquent sermon than the most learned scholar if they surrender themselves to God's leading and example.
>>The Basic Message: Explain to students...
• WHAT'S THE BIG IDEA?
God calls us to reach out to hurting people.
• WHY DOES IT MATTER?
When we see people in need, we're often tempted to either ignore them or blame them for their troubles.
• HOW DO I LIVE IT?
Accept your responsibility to reach out to hurting people and ask God to give you opportunities to help them.
>>Activity Option: FRIEND FACTOR
Discuss the importance of being a faithful friend and encourage students to think about how they handle both good and bad situations in a friendship.
>>Guide: Explain that although friends, because they are humans, will occasionally let us down, that doesn't mean we should give up on them completely. God gives true friends as a gift. Many of us can look back at a time when we were encouraged by a friend and found the strength to face a difficult situation.
>>Study Overview: Explain that today's study considers...
• How people often respond with careless or hurtful words without thinking.
• How God cares about the broken hearted; no problem is too small or big.
• That hurting people look to friends for comfort in times of hardship.
>>Inform and Discuss
a. Don't Shoot the Wounded
1. Why do people say hurtful/thoughtless things to someone who is hurting? [Hint: Many people are uncomfortable in the presence of someone who is hurting. They may not know how to fix the situation, so they ignore it, downplay it, or offer hollow words.]
2. Divide the class into three groups, and assign each group one of the passages listed below. Have each group describe what the passage has to say on how to respond to those who are hurting.
• Job 19:1-3 [Hint: We need to think about the effect our words of wisdom may have on the hurting. In the case of Job, the words of his so-called, well-meaning friends brought him no comfort, only pain. As believers, we should offer hope, not condemnation.]
• Heb 3:13 [Hint: We are directed to encourage one another on daily basis as opposed to waiting until we feel like offering comfort. This verse also makes it clear that without encouragement, suffering people may get so discouraged that they completely lose their faith.]
• Gal 6:1 [Hint: Sometimes, believers hurt because they have made sinful choices. Regardless, we are told to take immediate action to help bring them back into right relationship with God. We are to facilitate this restoration gently, being careful not to be drawn into the same trap.]
>>Guide: Explain that even though our words may be less than perfect, our attitude and compassion can still bring comfort. People are encouraged when they know someone cares about them.
b. God Comforts His Hurting People
1. What does it take to say something thoughtful or encouraging? [Guide: Point out that being thoughtful is all about thinking about how you would want to be treated in that same situation.]
2. Read or have a volunteer read Isaiah 61:1-3. What does it mean for Isaiah to be anointed by God to do the things he described in these verses? [Hint: Isaiah didn't minister from his own reserves of compassion. His words and actions were led of God. The same can be true for us when we allow God to minister His compassion through us.
3. By following Isaiah's example, what can we do to bring comfort to others? [Hint: We can bring comfort to people by reminding them of God's promise. A change of perspective helps others lift their eyes from the circumstances which they are in, and reminds them of the good plans that God is bringing to fruition in their lives.]
4. Read or have a volunteer read Psalm 34:18. What encouragement does this verse offer those who are suffering? [Hint: God is not indifferent to their suffering, but rather, He is intimately involved in their pain and actively works to bring healing and restoration.]
>>Guide: Suggest to students that they take a moment and underline this passage in their Bibles, as well as write the reference on the blank pages at the front or back. This will remind them that God is with them when they go through troubles, and He will bring them comfort.
5. Why is it sometimes easier to seek comfort from family and friends than it is to go to God?
>>Hint: When we think of comfort, we often associate it with tangible ways people make us feel better - a warm hug, pat on the back, or an uplifting smile. While these are all great, we must not forget that God is the ultimate source of peace and comfort.
c. Be Compassionate
1. Read or have a volunteer read Job 6:14. According to this verse, what does Job recommend on how we should respond to people who are hurting? [Hint: Believers are called to exhibit the finest qualities of friendship to those who are in the deepest pit of despair - even to those who in their pain have turned their backs on God.]
2. Discuss what the students think would be the outcome if believers treated the hurting and suffering as their closest friends. Would those people be as likely to turn away from God? Why or why not?
3. Read or have a volunteer read Job 42:11. What does this verse tell us about Job's post-trial situation? [Guide: Explain that even though his obvious suffering has ended, Job is still a willing recipient of comfort and consolation from his family and friends.]
4. Read or have a volunteer read 2 Cor 1:3-4. What is one of the reasons God offers comfort to us? [Hint: In addition to His care and concern for us when we suffer, God comforts us specifically so that we can pass that blessing on to others who are suffering.]
5. What do these titles, "Father of mercies" and "God of all comfort," communicate to believers about the importance God places on comforting people? [Hint: The titles leave no doubt of God's concern and compassion toward those who suffer. We can know that comfort can be found in God's love for us.]
>>Inspire Them: Remind students THE BASIC MESSAGE of this study (pg 090)-even as you explain WHAT the Big Idea behind the study is; WHY it matters; and HOW we can live the lesson captured in this study.
>>Illustration Activity: GUIDELINES
Inform students that long before the Red Cross and other disaster relief organizations, the Bible set forth some specific guidelines concerning the treatment of those in need. Read the following: Exo 22:25 The needy were not charged interest on their loans. Deut 15:1-11-All debts of poor Israelites were cancelled every seven years. Lenders were also not allowed to refuse a loan just because it was getting close to the seventh year 24:14-1 - Wealthy employers were required to pay their needy workers at the conclusion of each day’s work. Luke 14:18-19 - Jesus performed the majority of His miracles in the midst of the needy, oppressed, and outcast. Acts 6:1-6-The Early Church selected leaders whose main duty was to care for the needy among them.
Discuss the message that these guidelines send about how God wants us to act toward those who need help or comfort.
>>Guide: Explain that God wants special consideration to be given to the needy and suffering. This kind of life requires believers to make a sacrifice of their time and effort to help people who are hurting.
>>Ministry Activity: Several of your students may have come to realize that ignoring someone's hurt is not an option for believers. Ask students to spend a few moments in quiet reflection on this topic, then pray over them, asking God to forgive them and also equip them to carry His comfort to the hurting people they encounter.
>>Conclude by reminding the students that they aren't expected to help people on their own, but with God's strength and wisdom.
>>Teacher Hint: Ask Yourself...
1. Do students understand the importance of being a faithful and compassionate friend?
2. Do they understand that God comforts us so that we can comfort others?
3. Can they name practical ways to comfort those who are hurting?
>>DAILY DEW DROPS:
Mon: Stabilize in God – 1 Peter 2:1-5
Tue: Living Sacrifice – Romans 12:1-2
Wed: Depend on Him – 2 Cor 3:5
Thu: It Doesn't Worth It – Matt 4:5-7
Fri: The Order – 1 John 1:3-6
Sat: Abide in Christ – John 15: 4-8