05/06/2026
There's this woman in our church who was living with a man that had never paid her bride price. They had been together for years and even had 4 children together.
Eventually, the man decided he wanted to do things properly. He planned to visit her parents, pay her bride price, and officially marry her.
To his surprise, the woman refused.
When he asked why, she told him she didn't want him to marry her formally. According to her, once they were legally and traditionally married, she would no longer have the freedom to attend parties and social events the way she liked. She felt that he would begin to control her life and act as though he had "bought" her simply because he had paid her bride price.
The man was shocked by her response, especially after everything they had already shared together, including raising children.
Again I ask.... What do women want?
👉HMMM WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THIS?