19/10/2024
Virginity till marriage is still highly priced!
One of the most surprising messages I have got, in recent times, from newlyweds after the wedding, is the husband writing me a 'thank you' message that he met his wife a virgin. Honestly, this baffles me!
Few months ago, one even wrote thus: "Dad, thank you for raising her well, I am so glad I found her still whole ('I met my wife at home')... Thank you, dad."
This is always laughingly shocking for me, because it is NOT our emphasis - other than being in the will of God for marriage; but that it is coming from their different husbands - and at different times - speaks volumes on virginity and marriage. There is more.
It appears that many young men, especially correct brothers, still values virginity; and they quietly hope to enjoy the blessed-ness of marrying a virgin. Dear young sister, I beg you - KEEP YOUR VIRGINITY!
Virginity is one priceless gift to be shared with your husband, on your wedding night. You don't want to give this gift away to just any man - just because of their pressure. Anyone, who cannot wait till you are married together, for s*x is never worth your time.
You may say that virginity till marriage is NOT just a guarantee for good marriage; I agree with you - 100 percent. But it is ONE thing that any man privileged to enjoy never jokes with for life, most times. There is a way this cements your worth before your man.
Virginity is a treasure into marriage; do not lose it!
© Paul Pius