Islam My Deen

06/05/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Hajia Real, Ayisha Khalesha, Fatima A Baba

09/04/2026

Must a woman remain in a marriage where she feels unsafe, insecure, unhappy, disrespected, unwanted, and unimportant solely for the sake of her children because she is not being physically abused yet? I need evidence from the Quran please 🤔📿👩‍👧‍👦💔🕊️

02/04/2026

Asalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh
family
let try to fast our situh shawal
May Allah make it easy

02/04/2026

To the woman who feels unseen, unheard, and unloved…

I want you to know first that your feelings are valid. The pain you carry is real. The silence you sit in, the moments you question your worth, the nights you wonder if you made the wrong choice, all of it matters.

Being an additional wife is not an easy path, no matter how strong you are or how much faith you try to hold onto. You may have entered this marriage with hope, with love, with the belief that your heart would be protected and your presence valued. But somewhere along the way, things began to feel different.

You started noticing the imbalance.
The emotional distance.
The way your needs became secondary.
The way you had to “adjust” more than you were ever meant to.

And slowly, you began to shrink.

You stopped expressing yourself the way you used to.
You started convincing yourself to be patient, even when it hurt deeply.
You told yourself maybe things will change over and over again.

But inside, something feels heavy.

Let me say this clearly to you, You are not too much. You are not asking for too much. Wanting love, attention, fairness, emotional connection, these are not luxuries. They are basic needs in any marriage.

You deserve to be seen.
You deserve to be heard.
You deserve to feel chosen, not tolerated.

And if you feel neglected, it is not something to ignore or bury. Your heart is signaling that something is missing, something important.

At the same time, I want you to approach this with wisdom, not just pain.

Pause and ask yourself
Have I clearly expressed how I feel, or have I been silently hoping he will notice?
Am I losing myself while trying to “keep peace”?
What kind of marriage do I truly want, and is this situation moving me closer to it?

You cannot control another person’s actions, but you can decide how you respond, what you accept, and how you protect your emotional well being.

This is not about competing with another wife.
This is not about proving your worth.

Your value

04/03/2026

Shout out to my newest followers! Excited to have you onboard! Diana M Watson, Sufy Sufizy, Ademola Olufemi Oshunrayi, Hassana Mamudu, Zuweiratu Abubakar, Sarah Iyobor Efe, Aisha Nnasha Usman, Ibrahim Olawuyi, Tunji Yusuf, Itz Hardesuar, Fatmata Bintlin, Nata Pinky, Salam Barikisu, Edrees Bin Abdulmumin, Itz Princess Olaitan, Hardejoke Hardesholar, Islamiyyah Islamiyyah, Horphe Yemmy, Ayamga Swanzy Bae, Narhzee Musty, Prince Ajibike, Mhiz Ramzzy, Day Boatwright, Faizah Adamu, Adejoke Afinah, Mainat Teslim Lawal, Jemilat Momoh, Ohunene Zuleihat, Rukayat Mohammed Goyi, Hassanat Yahyah Sotafu, Hawa Muhammad, Oriolowo Agba

27/02/2026

Ramadan Mubarak

24/12/2024

Asalamualaikum warahmatullah wabarakatuh
Dear Muslims
Let say NO to Christmas food and meat, because it is totally against our believe.
It is not allowed for us to eat, and we should not celebrate it with them as we are not part of them.
Asalamualaikum

28/11/2024

Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen رحمه الله said,

“The greatest calamity is from an ignorant person who has compound ignorance,

who argues with you without knowledge,

speaks without knowledge,

speaks to the common folk without knowledge,

speaks to the scholars without knowledge and in an argumentative manner, and

when you discuss something with him, he is the most ignorant of Allah’s slaves.”

[Sharh al-Kafiyah ash-Shafiyah, vol. 1, pg. 182]

24/10/2024

24/09/2024

Oya come and travel, u finished school u no see work do for Nigeria,
Why can't you just bring out your certificate to work in this countries, workers are waiting for you.
Travel with Muslim Ummah travels and tours. They are tested and trusted 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯