Singles & Married Connect

04/06/2026

Are you a :
counselor


of church's marriage committee
home enthusiasts?

*As COUNSELLORS feeling overwhelmed or inadequate*

*You became a counsellor to help heal marriages.*
*We’ll help you feel confident doing it.*

It’s heavy when a couple looks to you for hope and you’re unsure what to say next. You’re not alone — and it’s not your fault. Most training stops at theory.

*The Marriage Counsellors’ Upskilling Masterclass*
is a safe space to gain real tools.

*4 Gentle but Powerful Saturdays in July*
*10AM | Live on Zoom*

Together with Oba & Kemi Samuel, you’ll learn to:
- Gently uncover what’s _really_ hurting a marriage
- Guide conversations through pain, anger, and shutdown
- Offer practical steps couples can use that same week

*Fee:* ₦200,000 | *Support Rate: ₦120,000* if you register early

*Next step:* Pay to Zenith Bank — TI SHIS CONCEPT — 1016520968
Then message 08028301793 on WhatsApp. We’ll take it from there.

*You’re already caring. Let’s add the clinical skill.*
*Oba & Kemi Samuel*
_Family & Relationship Coaches who’ve been where you are_

29/05/2026

Dear Couple

time spent together are to create memories , tighten your bond and create stability .

try it , step out of the usual , plan a getaway with your spouse ,interrupt the routine in your marriage and you will see each other in a new light.

see as this young lady spoil my suppose couple picture 💗😍

I love Happy home !
do Marriage well !
enjoy your union !

09/05/2026

Most marriage problems are caused by adding wrong things or wrong people to the union

09/05/2026

❤️ 𝐋𝐨𝐯𝐞, 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐝𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐢𝐬 𝐚 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐨𝐟! 🔥

Join us tomorrow at Singles & Married Connect for an engaging and impactful session on “Triangulation in Marriage.” Whether you’re single, courting, or married, there’s something valuable for you!

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22/04/2026

WHEN LOVE TURNS INTO REGRET ; LESSONS FROM A FATHER STORY part 2 ( finale )

Sometimes, the problem is not who we chose… it’s what we refused to see.

The dad blamed the women, but never paused to ask: what role did I play in all this?
“It’s easy to call them devils… but harder to ask, ‘what did I do wrong six times?’”

There was nothing inherently wrong with these women, but the man refused to confront the real issues—financial consequences, constant arguments, divided loyalty, among others.

The truth is, insecurity can change a woman’s behaviour and the entire dynamic of a home.

When a man marries one woman, he often has her full loyalty. She can be compassionate, steadfast, and caring—as long as she feels secure, as long as she knows she is the only one. Many women will endure seasons of lack, pain, and insufficiency without complaint when they feel safe and valued.

But everything changes the moment that security is broken.

The moment she realizes she is no longer the only wife, something shifts. The man who was once her husband becomes our husband. And in that shift, emotional connection begins to fade.

A woman who feels replaced doesn’t fight for love… she protects her heart.

Gradually, her love is redirected—often toward her children. The bond weakens, respect fades, and the image of the man begins to change in her eyes… and sometimes even in the eyes of the children.

If the foundation—godliness, trust, oneness, communication, provision, leadership—is weak, even one marriage will struggle… talk less of six.
When the foundation is weak, even one marriage will shake… so what happens when you build six?

No man has the emotional, financial, or mental capacity to handle multiple marriages—and forcing it often creates chaos. Some struggle to manage one relationship well, let alone several wives.

If peaceful ambience, joy, genuine love, laughter, progress, and an enviable marriage are your desire… then ,marry just one godly woman

After all, even in the beginning, God gave one Eve to Adam—and that template carried purpose.

And if you choose otherwise… be prepared, because what you are building may not be a home, but a battlefield-civil war of polygamous marriage. I don't think there's anyone who passes through a polygamous home that have a good story to tell or what do you think?

www.obasamuel.com

22/04/2026