Singles, Sex and Spouses

30/05/2026

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Singles, S*x and Spouses
Efosa Godsown Matthew

30/05/2026

📌 Saturday 30th May, 2026
SSNS Weekend Wisdom
Many people are looking for the right person.
Few people are becoming the right person.
Before God gives you the partner of your dreams, He often works on making you the person your future partner is praying for.
Don't spend all your time searching.
Spend time growing.
✔ Grow in character
✔ Grow in wisdom
✔ Grow in communication
✔ Grow in your relationship with God
The quality of your future relationship is greatly connected to the quality of the person you are becoming today.

SSNS Family,
Which is more important?
A. Finding the right person
B. Becoming the right person

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— Pastor Matthew Godsown Efosa
Convener – Singles, S*xes and Spouses (SSNS)

29/05/2026

📌 Friday 29th May, 2026
SSNS Weekend Reflection
Sometimes, the greatest relationship mistake is not choosing the wrong person…
It is refusing to heal from past hurts before entering a new relationship.

Broken emotions can damage good relationships.

Healing is important.
Don’t carry yesterday’s pain into tomorrow’s future.

A healthy relationship begins with a healthy heart.

SSNS Family,
What hurts relationships more?
A. Past experiences
B. Poor communication
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— Pastor Matthew Godsown Efosa
Convener – Singles, S*xes and Spouses (SSNS)

22/05/2026

22/05/2026

Marry for where you are going...






Singles, S*x and Spouses

22/05/2026

My parents never slept in separate rooms🤔




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Singles, S*x and Spouses

22/05/2026

*📖 SSNS Lesson*
A man asked, “What keeps marriage strong?”
An elderly woman replied:
“Patience and forgiveness.”

— Pastor Matthew Godsown Efosa

19/05/2026

𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐁𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐇

🔴The works of the flesh are manifest: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness.

🔴Lasciviousness is the tendency to produce s*xual desires and s*xual acts — even when the person is not there.

🔴It includes framing in your mind that you are sleeping with someone who is not present.

🔴It includes watching pornographic magazines or blue films to excite yourself before being with your spouse.

🔴Even married people fall into this when they use outside pictures to get charged up for their own spouse.

🔴While you are with your wife or husband, your mind is on the person you saw on the screen — that is lasciviousness.

🔴You are not having s*x with your spouse — you are having it with the image in your mind. That is a work of the flesh.

🔴Return to your first love. Rekindle the flame with your spouse — don’t replace it with lasciviousness.

𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 🙏


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19/05/2026

𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐁𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐇

🔴The works of the flesh are manifest: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness.

🔴Lasciviousness is the tendency to produce s*xual desires and s*xual acts — even when the person is not there.

🔴It includes framing in your mind that you are sleeping with someone who is not present.

🔴It includes watching pornographic magazines or blue films to excite yourself before being with your spouse.

🔴Even married people fall into this when they use outside pictures to get charged up for their own spouse.

🔴While you are with your wife or husband, your mind is on the person you saw on the screen — that is lasciviousness.

🔴You are not having s*x with your spouse — you are having it with the image in your mind. That is a work of the flesh.

🔴Return to your first love. Rekindle the flame with your spouse — don’t replace it with lasciviousness.

𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 🙏


𝐖𝐇𝐘 𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐓𝐔𝐑𝐁𝐀𝐓𝐈𝐎𝐍 𝐀𝐍𝐃 𝐋𝐀𝐒𝐂𝐈𝐕𝐈𝐎𝐔𝐒𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐀𝐑𝐄 𝐖𝐎𝐑𝐊𝐒 𝐎𝐅 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐅𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐇

🔴The works of the flesh are manifest: adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness.

🔴Lasciviousness is the tendency to produce s*xual desires and s*xual acts — even when the person is not there.

🔴It includes framing in your mind that you are sleeping with someone who is not present.

🔴It includes watching pornographic magazines or blue films to excite yourself before being with your spouse.

🔴Even married people fall into this when they use outside pictures to get charged up for their own spouse.

🔴While you are with your wife or husband, your mind is on the person you saw on the screen — that is lasciviousness.

🔴You are not having s*x with your spouse — you are having it with the image in your mind. That is a work of the flesh.

🔴Return to your first love. Rekindle the flame with your spouse — don’t replace it with lasciviousness.

𝐆𝐎𝐃 𝐁𝐋𝐄𝐒𝐒 𝐘𝐎𝐔 🙏

14/05/2026

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