20/05/2026
*Before you say you don't abuse your wife, you need to know what it takes to be an abúser.🙋🏼♂️👇🏼🙋🏼♀️*
You might actually be an abúser and think you are not. An abúser is not only a person who beats up his spouse.
If you lift a finger or any 0bject on your wife, you are an abúser (Physical abúse).
If you refuse her from working or decide the type of work she will do or force her to work for you, you are an abúser (economic/financial abúse).
If you always talk down on her or her family just to make her feel less of herself, you are an abúser (emotional abús).
If you use words or your actions to make her feel torturd for not having a child or not having many children or for birthing only girls or more girls than boys, you are an abúser (Psychological abúse).
If you force her to stay away from her family and friends or decide where she goes to and when she can go there just to show control, you are an abúser (social abuse).
If you throw her out of the matrimonial home or refuse her from entering, or always threatening to throw her out, you are an abúser (Physical and psychological abuses).
If you're ashamed of her because of body changes resulting from childbirth, you are an abuser (emotional and psychological abúses).
If you have the money but refused to provide food and make her starve, you are an abúser (financial abúse).
The list is long but these are just common examples so you know the kind of abúser that you are. You are actually guilty of domestic violence if you commit any of these abúses.
It's unfortunate that some women experience all these abúses from one man and still stay in that marriage. You actually need deliverance to avoid "Gone too soon".
Whatever you know you cannot accept when done to your mother, your daughter or your sister, don't do it to your wife because she is also someone's daughter, sister and mother.
If you feel you cannot comfortably live with her, end the marriage rather than become a monster because she refused to say "Enough is enough".
If you are the man who is experiencing abúses from your wife, end the marriage and set yourself free. Marriage is not to be endured with abuses but enjoyed.
*Enoughsaid 🤗*
